Do you have problem with connecting to other people?

[Justneedtokno]

Like social circles, co-workers, and some time family.

Also dating. It’s like as soon as I get this gut feeling of where I think it’s going to lead I disconnect. Or the guy is talking about sex way too early.

and at the end of the day, I just wanna stay home/go out, but not really

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I think I’m going through the isolation. At this moment, deleting media, and focusing on self and work.

[Sixgunsound]

Are you leaning more towards agoraphobia or fear of rejection or something else?

[Justneedtokno]

I’m actually just not sure what it is I just know that I need to get me an order in order to entertain someone else at this moment like it takes a lot to incorporate someone into your life trusting them enough since there’s so many negative things out there about dating and people and a bunch of stuff You want to give people the benefit of the doubt but having a little protection so your feelings don’t get hurt

[Sixgunsound]

So what's wrong with taking time off to work on yourself?

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[Justneedtokno]

Well, you know how the guys say you wait too long life will pass you by and your moment of attractiveness is over once you hit 30 just about

[Sixgunsound]

I'm going to a wedding this summer for a couple in their fifties. It's the second marriage for both of them.

[Sixgunsound]

The reproductive window starts closing Soon, but you still have a lot of life left. I don't know if children are a goal for you or not but if not, then there are plenty of guys out there who don't want to risk having kids in this day and age.

[Justneedtokno]

Well there, you have it in this day and age for people like me who still want children there’s an issue, but you’re right there is other things to do travel adopt all of these things, but I also would like to have a partner in crime. Sorry to speak.

Hey, congratulations to the 50-year-old couple that’s very sweet they always say you can love more than one person

[Sixgunsound]

If you don't mind my asking, please dm if needed, what was stopping you in your early 20's? SMV for you is highest then, fertility is strongest, guys are cheaper SMV-wise, and two incomes would be able to afford more together. Kids would be healthier and easy to chase after with more energy, etc.

[Gent207-2]

I know my people and my people know me and I know my people lol

[msc545]

I have no particular problem with this although I think sometimes other people do to some extent.

[Jamie05rhs]

The fact that you're disconnecting in that instance is a GOOD thing! 👍

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Honestly, I am super selective here.

[ColHathi]

I'd say so, yeah.

[Jennz6]

No, not really

[DizzyDesii]

Nah i connect too easily which is even scarier

[Agape93]

Yeap.

[NathanDavis]

nope

[shortster]

Definitely

[legalboxers]

I hate people