What do u do if u're seeing a girl who accidentally forgot her stuff at ur place?

[LogicalGal123]

I have been seeing this guy for a while now. There are times I tend to forget things, such as leaving some of my stuff behind and dont realize it until a couple of days later. When we first started seeing each other, I forgot my jacket at his apartment when I spent the night. Went over to my grandpa's house for the weekend and realized I had left my jacket. The guy I was seeing didn't say any until I mentioned it. Now, we are dating, and he moved into a house. I have been traveling once a week or every other week to his place to spend the night (depending on our work schedules). I always have an overnight bag in my car just in case I'm out somewhere to spend the night at my family's or friends' house. Didn't realize I forgot my face wash and toothbrush at his place until today. I saw it in his bathroom. I asked him why he didn't say anything to me when I forgot my stuff. He said he thought I did that on purpose and didn't bother to tell me. I said to him that it wasn't on purpose, I thought I had everything packed away. Apparently, it didn't bother him, and he was okay with it. I rather have him tell me that he wants me to leave some of my stuff at his place versus not saying anything about it. What do u guys think? Or what is ur take on it?

[TomMarks]

He may not have thought about it until you said something. Ok, jacket should have been something to ask about, especially if it’s cold. The toothpaste, toothbrush and face wash are different. Those things are so common, I’d assume you had extra and not said anything either. Could possibly be, for example if you had to go out of town to visit some friend / family member in a hurry, more trouble to back track to his house than to just get another one for those items.

[LogicalGal123]

Actually, now that u mentioned it about in a hurry. I had gym training early morning and my dude had to go to work. So the both of us didn't think of anything. All I know is that I made sure I had all of my stuff and not left anything behind at his house. Don't want to be a burden to him with my stuff until today I saw it in his bathroom right after work. I literally said "OH SHIT😳" and when I asked him why he didn't tell me that I left my stuff behind. He said "I thought u left it there on purpose." Which I didn't leave it on purpose. I asked him if he thinks it's okay if I leave my stuff at his place? He said he doesn't mind. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[TomMarks]

Right, may have also thought, “I’m sure she has an extra toothbrush so left this one here so she would not forget one while she’s here.”

[Adam1978]

There is no such thing, they do that on purpose. Just to have an excuse to come over again.

[LogicalGal123]

🤷🏻‍♀️ Sometimes, it can be an accident. I've gone over to his place many times without leaving stuff behind, but now I have, and he just like, "She forgot her stuff. Eh, she'll notice it when she comes overgain."

[mommymommy]

Typically a woman won't "forget" her stuff at his place. She meant to, she'll just play it off as if it's an accident. She wants to show him that she wants to move in

[MementoMori777]

I'd tell her her stuff is where I'm at and that she can scoop it next time she slides through

[Danny_dan92]

She probably did it intentionally.




That or she’s a clutz

[LogicalGal123]

Lol then I am definitely a clutz lol. Always forgetting stuff. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Guardian45]

I wouldn't have been upset. I probably would be happy that she felt comfortable enough to leave things like a toothbrush at my place.

[LogicalGal123]

Really? I always think guys don't want our stuff there because ur house is a bachelor pad. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Guardian45]

NOPE! NOT my house!

[Guardian45]

Some guys, probably if they are available, but I tend to date one woman at a time. I'm past those days! LOL!

[LogicalGal123]

Lol!

[noohair]

I would not make a big deal about this. You are supposed to be an adult and responsible for your own stuff. Put a backup toothbrush in the car.

[zagor]

I would probably do just as he does.

[LogicalGal123]

Lol I would probably be same just look at it and be like."oh, he forgot to grab these." and walk out to the kitchen.

[In_Trance]

What kind of stuff?