Is it a "tease" to let guys take me to dinner, even when they know I'm a lesbian?

[Sunkizzd]

Listen, it's in my dating profile that I'm lez, but some guys still ask me out. Plus, I like getting dressed up and going out, and being treated, especially, to a fancy restaurant. Then there's some guys that try to fulfill of getting a night with a lesbian.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

Honestly trying it with a lesbian is secretly in any guy’s check-list, if they’re fun and like challenges anyway. I myself probably wouldn’t specifically target you for a date just because you’re lesbian but if i found you attractive and a nice gal i would ask you on a date and still say yes if you told me you were a lesbian, there’s something thrilling about it certainly. I know enough men out there who would make it their life’s mission to turn you from a lesbian into a bisexual, hell i know friends of friends who’s wives turned bisexual after they met the guy. Men who would have the guts to ask you out instantly like a challenge and risk, you’re literally the definition of a challenge as you deeply believe you’re attracted to women and not men. Humans always prefer the rare candy over the common candy, that’s a fact. Also there’s a ton of men who have a deep believe that lesbians are not actually lesbians, they’re just in a phase and they’re the ones to “fix it” i know it’s self obsessive a little, but people believe in what they wanna believe.

[MrPickles13]

Not a tease at all. As long as it's clear that you aren't into guys but they still ask you out and you choose to go I see it as no harm. It's kinda just a bit of fun for both I guess. But not teasing as 1 your profile you said was clear about you not being interested in men. And 2 your not teasing by going on a date I wouldn't say. There shouldn't be any expectations for a date except getting to know each other and seeing if you like each other.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

She’s lesbian till she’s not, something my dad always told me. Perhaps it’s not true, but there’s enough men out there who truly believe in being the “solution” as to say.

[MrNameless]

Soo are you going out for a free meal from them with no chance of going to the next part of a relationship, and that wasn't communicated? That's not teasing. That's leading them on and taking advantage of them. You're awful.

[richardcory]

As long as they know, there is nothing wrong with it. They may just enjoy the company of women (I do) even if there is no possibility of a romantic /sexual interaction.

[Part2603]

Only if you've never fucked a dude before. If you're a virgin, I suppose that also would suggest that you're not actually gay.

[Berethor]

He is paying for your part? suckers don't die, they only got replaced. He sounds desperate.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

You mention that you're lesbian in the profile, I don't see why that would be leading them on or even teasing them as you made it perfectly clear that you're a lesbian.

[jammcm]

I don't see why it would be teasing as long as the person knows your preference. I socialize with many people without the intent of developing a sexual relationship.

[slatyb]

If they know, then it's their choice. Do you remind them when you accept?

[zagor]

Believe it or not, some guys just like to go out and spend an evening talking with a girl.

I'm not one of them...

[PointTaken]

I'd take you out as a friend. Not expecting anything cause we can talk about women and who's sexy.

[Jennz6]

@pointtaken true

[ChiTown33]

No. If you told them you're playing for the same team then they know what's up.

[Wise4myage]

No, that's not a tease unless start acting like you want to screw him, or have a threesome.

[Charliefretz329]

It’s ok as long as you aren’t leading them on. I enjoy lesbians!

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Not a tease at all. Take you out as a friend not expecting anything in return.

[dinojames22]

Depending on how you dress or flirt.. if tour goal is to make a guy hard and hot then walk out.. your just "bad"

[Jennz6]

Guys don’t care if we are lesbian or bisexual

[PointTaken]

There's like 0.5% of us that do. Lol. Bisexuality can be more fun. I've never been with either one.

[Jennz6]

@PointTaken I am lol

[PointTaken]

I know. I'd like to take you out. We can check out the other women. Maybe hook you up with one. Lol. Maybe it'll help me to get one too. Just thought of that. 🤔

[Guardian45]

If I'm taking a woman out, I prefer her to be straight or bi.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nah; it's a fair play.

[BHooper]

If they know you're a lesbian it's their fault.

[Guardian45]

Do any of them act as your wingman?

[mommymommy]

Yeah