Why would a guy you’ve been texting for weeks ghost you the day you both planned to hangout?

[Genevieverudd]

We met on hinge and he asked for my Snapchat, we texted for a few weeks planning to hangout. He asked if I wanted to “watch a movie” at his place but I had to reschedule bc I was busy. I also made it clear I wasn’t looking to hook up. We soon plan a hangout and he sends his address and we pick a time. The next day I see he deleted me off Snapchat, the day we’re supposed to hangout. Why is this?

[GreekLorrd]

It's difficult to say for sure why he ghosted you, as everyone's motivations and thought processes are unique to them. However, there could be a variety of reasons why he disappeared, such as:

He changed his mind: It's possible that he lost interest or had second thoughts about hanging out with you, and instead of telling you directly, he decided to ghost you.

He found someone else: He may have met someone else or rekindled an old flame and decided to pursue them instead.

He wasn't looking for the same thing: He may have realized that you both were not looking for the same kind of relationship or connection and decided to cut things off without explanation.

He was only interested in hooking up: If he was looking for a hookup and you had made it clear that you weren't interested in that, he may have decided to ghost you rather than continue pursuing something that wasn't going to happen.

Regardless of the reason, it's important to remember that ghosting is a disrespectful and hurtful behavior, and you deserve to be treated with honesty and respect in any relationship or interaction.

[Genevieverudd]

Thanks for your response, I 100% agree!

[MisterKuulius]

If it's the other way around, what would you most likely assume? There's a high chance he's just not that into you. You might be a side chick to him, or at the very least not that important to him. It's also possible you did something to upset him or to lose faith in pursuing anything further with you. You may have said something that made him feel less attracted toward you. On the other hand, you told him you weren't looking to hook up, so if that is what he really wanted, he must just have given up. He'd look for someone easier instead. Either way, no big loss. It was just texting. You're still young so you can easily find another guy.

[Anonymous]

Texting fail #1,989,629.

[Iron_Man]

He’s a flake

[MementoMori777]

People smh

[Anonymous]

He don't have money to take you on date...