Women would you date a man shorter than you & Men would you date a woman taller than you?

[Spongebobssocks]

I'm a man and I WOULD date a woman taller than me

I'm a man and I would NOT date a woman taller than me

I'm a woman and I WOULD date a man shorter than me

I'm a woman and I would NOT date a man shorter than me

Im LBGTQ+

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+1 y

I would personally not date a man shorter than me. But I'm 158 cm (5'2). So most men are taller than me anyways.

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+1 y

See my new question:
Men would you date a woman that makes MORE money than you & Women would you date a man that makes LESS money than you? ↗

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

I would be less likely to chase taller women then me in comparison with shorter women for sure, however if she was really attractive and feeling ballsy i still would’ve risked the biscuit. I don’t judge a woman on her height solely and i don’t think most males do, however i’m not into feeling like being challenged in my own-household and would prefer to avoid the friends jokes about her being taller then me and family mocking me about it in private. If one of them were to look towards me and or seemingly be interested i couldn’t care less about her height if i were attracted to her, though most males feel less secure in their relationship and don’t like the environment aka their friends and family who jump on the band-wagon to makes jokes and other things about her being taller. I’m 6’2 with American inches which is a little above average in my country and i’ve rarely had the problem, but for the few that were either a few inches smaller or taller then me with with heels it kinda scratched my ego and i can seemingly understand how some men might feel mess masculine because of it although in my opinion if they’re fragile and sensitive about their masculinity they need to grow a little as a man.

[cunnilinguist]

I do not often see women taller than me, in fact I do not recall having ever seen one now that I think about it. I've seen a few that come close to me. For some reason I find them most desirable. If I saw one taller than me? Woah, okay, beside the fact that it would probably the first time in my life so hard to imagine, and also it would be a most unusual experience, what would that make me think? I suppose it all boils down to the same question that it would with any other woman. Does she require my services on a daily basis? If yes, the bigger, the merrier! :D

[Spongebobssocks]

Awwwe thats sweet! How tall are you?

[Kidblink1]

5'7"

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

When I'm in a relationship, I prefer to date men that can provide physical security for safety purposes. Considering that I'm 5'4," I'm not convinced that a man shorter than me would be that great a providing security, given that he is much shorter than the average man, and unless you're a trained/experienced fighter and your opponent isn't, size definitely matters. In addition, I prefer to date men that I find physically attractive. For the most part, I am attracted to men that are close to 6'0" and taller with an athletic build, similar to that of a basketball player or track and field runner. The height of 5'3" simply does not look attractive on any man to me regardless of his body type. Therefore, no, I would never date a guy that is shorter than me.

[DevilDaddi]

I have to say here that you shouldn't judge weather a person is capable of a thing until you see for yourself. I say this as a short guy that has spent a lot of time defending myself because of being short. It's always the people that under estimate people my size that stepped to me and I always put them in their place. You should take into account that short guys have been short their whole lives which means we've dealt with people seeing us exactly like you our whole lives. Small doesn't equal weak. I've been in the military and I was stronger than most of my larger homies coming up. I was a power lifter poised to go Olympic but chose the Military instead. So if it's just that you don't like short guys cool. But don't try blanketing weakness on shorter men just because that's what you think.

[Spongebobssocks]

@DevilDaddi you are strong for keeping your head high! I hope you find a woman that loves you for you.

However a lot of women prefer men that are taller than them because its more of a masculine feature and makes us "feel" more protected. But you are correct you can be really strong and short or vice versa. Everyone has their preference. Their are men out there who wouldn't date me either for my height.

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@DevilDaddi: I also can't automatically assume that a short guy is stronger than average either, especially because one short guy claimed to be strong. By the way, I never said that being short makes you weak. However, even if he is strong and capable, bigger guys exist that are strong and capable too. While it is definitely possible that a short guy can handle bigger guys, this is mostly true for the bigger guys that can't fight. How would you fair against a guy who is not only much bigger than you but can also fight as well? In addition, it is an attraction thing as well. Guys that are shorter than me aren't really sexually appealing.

[DevilDaddi]

@Tiffany_Taylir_Made you're saying that but assuming that because a guy is short he is weak. With that statement you contradict yourself because you also can't assume that just because a guy is tall he is strong. I fair just fine against larger people in a fight skilled or not. Again, stronger doesn't mean better fighter trained or not because fighting isn't just about strength, it's about strategy too so you can be good at fighting but if your opponent out thinks you they don't have to be strong to beat you. I've watched people that couldn't fight at all cause a "strong" person to mess themselves up just by out thinking them. As I said, nothing wrong with having a preference but blanketing terms on people doesn't work. Maybe that's been your experiences. I've experienced a lot of manipulative women in my lifetime but I don't go around thinking all women are manipulative because of what I've dealt with. Could be I'm just around a lot of manipulative women. But if I came saying a blanket statement like women are manipulative, you'd have a problem with that wouldn't you? Because you aren't manipulative. But to me all women are manipulative in my head just like short guys can't protect you right? See how that looks. I grouped all women into something that doesn't pertain to all women, just some. You are doing the same thing when it comes to short guys. You automatically assume they can't protect you because they are short. Yet you say you can't make the opposite assumption? Hmm 🤔 sounds a bit like cognitive dissonance to me ijs 🤷🏿‍♂️

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

@DevilDaddi: I'll be honest with you though: you're making some really good points. Maybe I'm just ignorant to this whole thing.

[FreyaRed]

Short men have shitty characters shaped by their "tall guys get everything for free" mindset. It's not just the shortcoming in their body height but it's mostly their obnoxious ever hostile behavior that is tiresome after some time. Their only option is being rich or having potential to make money. Gold diggers don't care about such banal things like character.

[insteadfew]

What's your height?

[DevilDaddi]

Here we go with these blanket statements again. Everyone has different characters. When did tall guys start getting things for free?👀 Yeah, no. Not every short dude has a complex. You are generalizing from your own experiences. For the record, I actually like being a short guy. I've never felt slighted because of it. So... 🤷🏿‍♂️ Not obnoxious or anything. I'd have to care what other people think of me to even entertain such bs. I'm not overtly hostile either. That's not normal for people in general so if you've been around more than a few guys like that, it's your demographic, not the norm.

[DevilDaddi]

@insteadfew I'm 5'2 but I thought I said that in my original post 🤷🏿‍♂️ no worries

[Summeroflove]

I would. But everyone has their own thing

[asphaltrhymes]

Not my thing personally, I voted I'm a man who wouldn't date a taller woman than myself (I'm 6ft abouts). So I feel like, just from over time glances towards me, even from random women, short women seem to check me out most. Like, even if I'm just walking randomly in a crowd or whatever, short women, seem to uhh like me? They don't do more than glance or glance than move on and likewise.

I feel like somehow maybe I'm just more a guy who'd better match with short women (any woman under 5foot5 in height).

[asphaltrhymes]

And light 😃

[asphaltrhymes]

Like I like women average or short, in height, but I feel like I'm too fragile for women heavier than me 😋😋😋

[asphaltrhymes]

I'm just an skinny fit guy. Anyways, 🧐

[asphaltrhymes]

So I prefer a woman 20s aged, somewhere between 145cm to 160cm, fit to average weight. That's about my limits, I'm the tall and lean one enough here haha 😆😅

[Spongebobssocks]

I see thats cool! I hope you find the right woman soon! Thanks for sharing:)

[asphaltrhymes]

Thanks asker 👋🏻

[zeitgeist057]

I like to think I would date a taller woman. But I tend to date shorter women and find them attractive. There was once a tall woman that I thought was really cute so I asked her to hang out and we did. She was really beautiful actually but we only hung out that once. If I'm being honest I don't know if it was a personality/chemistry thing but she for sure would have had a better chance if she was a shawty.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright I see! Cool!

Is that you in the picture. How tall are you?

[zeitgeist057]

No, that's just a googled image for tall woman. I'm 6' (182cm)

[zeitgeist057]

The "tall woman" I thought was cute was still actually shorter than me. I think she was about 5'9" or 5'10".

[Kaneki05]

Simple logic is what I go by it makes more sense to date someone around your height this makes things like kissing much less awkward, so a little bit taller or little bit under is fine.
Though also we can't choose what someone's height will be if we end up liking someone unless you are actively only picking people you don't actually have feelings for but match such ideals. My ex's have not been near my height like how most girls wouldn't be anyway but that didn't stop me from liking them.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright cool! I see your point (first part)

[Anonymous]

As a guy of average height - yes, I would date a taller woman. I would actually *prefer* a taller woman over a shorter woman, 99 times out of 100.

To add to my point - I'm 5'8", and my ex was 6'3". We were playful about our height difference, and we were never uncomfortable or embarrassed to be around each other.

If it were up to me, I would encourage more tall women to date shorter. That being said, if a taller woman doesn't want to date me because I'm shorter than them, I don't take it personally. I can't have the preference that I do, and then fault women for wanting it the other way around.

[Spongebobssocks]

That's interessting. I hope you meet your tall future wife soon!:)

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks! I'm faithful that I will find a tall wife someday.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yes! I'm sure you will:)

[SophieLund]

I'm NOT going to date a manlet! That is out of the question! My boyfriend is tall, charming and funny - manlets are abominable freaks who spread degradation and misery wherever their stumpy, little legs carry them. No thanks. The "life" of a manlet is an existence of constant humiliation, deep insecurity and an insatiable need to put others down in a futile attempt to reduce them to the incredibly low level of the manlet. Which is obviously impossible because there's nothing lower than a manlet - nothing even comes close! Delusional manlets must know their place. When will they learn?

[Spongebobssocks]

Its okay to not wanna date short men but there is no need to shame them. They are just as much men scientifically (biology) as tall men

[EricSummer]

I would not mind if she is taller, but in general the women would mind that, so it's mainly their choice.

Having said that, my ex wife who was only an inch shorter than I always saw it as a great sacrifice to have settled for a guy shorter than 6 ft. She even asked me to hold myself straight at parties (oh, the horror).

My current girlfriend is six inches shorter than I so that this difficulty no longer applies. Thankfully she also has a different personality.

[Spongebobssocks]

I see! I'm glad you found your woman! Thank you for sharing:)

[razelove]

I dated one woman who was taller than me by a couple inches, like I'm a little over 6 feet, and she was about 6'5", maybe a little taller. Her choices would be narrowed considerably if she only dated guys taller than her.
Anyway, that was interesting, I had never had to lean up to kiss a woman before, but it's something I'd do again. I'm kind of ambivalent towards a woman's height unless she's a midget and I literally have to worry about breaking her.

[Spongebobssocks]

Cool! I hope you find your soulmate soon!

[OfMiceandMen]

I've dated three women who were a couple inches taller than me. I am 5'10" and never had a problem with dating.

I think it is because, I could not give a crap what height she is, if I find her attractive then I am going to talk to her.

Often, once I talk to her, any thoughts about how tall she typically dates is out the window. I've heard many times, I typically only date guys that are 6 ft or taller from women who are 5 ft and up, and it did not appear to make a difference once we got to know each other.

If a women would not date me because I am not over 6 ft, then so be it, that's her filter settings. I could care less, we all have filters. Even though she may be pretty, perhaps she's not the brightest bunny and even though I would not attain her 6 ft filter, she would not meet my criteria for being intelligent, humorous, kind, gentle, etc.

[Berethor]

I'm not sure if it dealbreaker to me, but I sure prefer to not date woman who taller than me.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[DrinaHeron]

I would certainly NOT date a "man" shorter than me! Tall men only. 5ft10 minimum. Manlets are not an option. Smelly, dumb, manlet scum - just gross! I would never lower myself to such a level. Tall men are so hot though - I need to be able to look up to my man and respect him and feel protected...

[Spongebobssocks]

i understand you would'nt date a man shorter than you and that's completely fine. But there is no need to call men shorter than you mean names. They are just as much men too.

[DevilDaddi]

I'm a short guy and I mean really short. I'm 5'2. I think I've maybe had 1 girlfriend shorter in my lifetime 🤔. I've never let it matter to me. It's never stopped me from dating and I've been with wome 6' plus. I think everyone likes what they like. There are plenty of beautiful women out there that actually like short guys like me. It's all about what you think of yourself.

[Spongebobssocks]

Good to here! I'm happy you are confident. I wish you the best!

[Yucy_Gluttony]

@insteadfew
A prime example of what I talked to you about ❤❤❤

[insteadfew]

How many women have you dated... and wasn't a six foot woman a bit TOO TALL for you? Awkward height difference anyway?

[DevilDaddi]

Dude I don't know how many🤷🏿‍♂️, enough. I'm dating a few rn. 6 ft was quite a height difference idc though. It's never mattered to me. I'm not insecure about my height or really anything about myself. I actually like who I am. Being with a person that is more of something than I am isn't intimidating for me. I'm happy with everything that I am and I'm content with not being the things that I am not. There's a uniqueness to me because I am so short and I like that about myself. To me that's the only thing that matters cause who's gonna like me if I don't like me?

[insteadfew]

That is great. Even women are very comfortable and accepting about your height?

[DevilDaddi]

The women that date me typically are. Honestly if a person isn't into me because of my height, how is that different from then not liking say my accent, or the way my body is built? For every type of a person out there, there is someone that's into every type of person. We allow our own negative self talk and thoughts to limit us and trap us inside of ideals that are nothing more than distractions. We imprison ourselves by believing failure or rejection is the end all for life niches when failure is way more common than success, especially in the dating world. That's mostly because people chase who they want instead of who wants them. If a woman makes it clear to me she doesn't like short guys I keep it moving. What's funny is often times those are the ones that end up dating me. I just don't let how the opposite sex views me even really matter to me because ultimately I want to be with someone that likes me the way I am and if I'm doing things to impress someone other than myself I'm not being me. So I wouldn't want them anyway.

[DevilDaddi]

What I'm saying is just do you. Be short, goofy, nerdy, fat, whatever... and be happy about being that person. Someone is going to see you and love your short, goofy, nerdy, fat, or whatever ass for who you are and see the fact that you're happy and want to be happy with you. It's when we let the negative take over and go all cynical and nihilistic that we end up alone because who wants to be around someone like that in perpetuity?

[insteadfew]

What? Initially the women who say they don't like short guys , end up dating you even though you are short and they're taller than you?

[DevilDaddi]

A lot of the time, yes. See people have their preferences bit that doesn't too much change typical human behavior. Humans tend to want what they can't have. Quite often, the fact that I'm unbothered by their rejection makes them more interested. They want to know why or how I could just move on as if I never tried in the first place. Some humans, not all but some are just wired that way.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Thank you for taking the time to answer his questions <3 you're an angel

[DevilDaddi]

😊 just want to help. I just want to see more people being confident in who they are because the creator made each and every one of us with our own special set of awesome. A lot of the time, people just need to hear that who they are is okay to be.

[insteadfew]

So you mean , you approached these tall women or women who preferred tall men... they rejected you for your height... but since it didn't bother you much, later they approached you? Even the much taller women approached you after rejecting you for your height?

[DevilDaddi]

Sometimes yes bro. 🤷🏿‍♂️ Just how it is. I don't worry about it either way. That seems to intrigue some people. I'm just as happy not knowing a person as knowing them so if I approach and they say no, I've lost nothing so why dwell. Not my fault that some can't let that go 🤷🏿‍♂️. Some people feel like they are such a prize that a person should feel bad for being rejected by them. IDGAF 😐🤷🏿‍♂️. That gets under some people's skin. So either they want to know more or they hate me I still don't GAF either way but if we date they better treat me good. That's it for me, just how I rock.

[insteadfew]

Currently are you dating someone?

[DevilDaddi]

Yes a few people. I already said that.

[insteadfew]

You dating a few people as of now at the same time?

[Sweety_Torneeya]

I would like to date a man shorter than me. I DOnt think so height matters too much if he is 4 inches shorter than me but if he is 7 or 8 inches shorter So he should find his height type girl for himself

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright cool. How tall are you?

[Sweety_Torneeya]

5:9...

[Spongebobssocks]

👍🏻👍🏻

[insteadfew]

You would be comfortable with a 5'5 guy?

[Sweety_Torneeya]

@insteadfew yeah offcourse

[Sweety_Torneeya]

@insteadfew 5'5 is cute

[insteadfew]

But wouldn't 4 inches be a huge and significant height difference to make him look really small next to you?

[musicbrain5]

I’m married now, but sure I would date a shorter man if I was still dating. I’m 6’1” so I’m already the same height as most men around here.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thats intressting. Do you like your height. How is it like?:)

[musicbrain5]

I never used to like it when I was younger because people would make fun of me, especially when I was in high school. But that’s what high school is like. They were probably jealous or something.

What’s it like being tall? Hard to say since it’s normal for me LOL!

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah High School sucks.. for the most part sorry you went through that.

[Inquisitive98]

U’re tall!!!

[Makeushiver]

Height makes no difference to me. I've had lovers who were 6'6" (I'm 6'1") she was a basketball player ( and voracious lover ) and gorls who were barely 5"

[Spongebobssocks]

Thats cool. Thankyou for sharing:)

[Jazzy54]

Nah. I’m already short enough (4’8). 😂 When it comes to a man’s height, I have a range. If he’s between 5’7 and 6’3, I’ll take him. Preferably 6’2. 🤤

[Jazzy54]

*4’8

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright cool!😅

[Anonymous]

No I'm 4ft6 so any guy shorter than me would be a midget too or dwarf. To be honest I wouldn't even dat a guy that's under 6ft as I've never been attracted to guys in the 5ft range. My fiancee is 6ft7.

[Spongebobssocks]

Wow!! Thats a huge difference in height. Intressting!:) is there a specific reason why?

[insteadfew]

You are a full adult?

[Opinion Owner]

@insteadfew yes. Just really short

[insteadfew]

How do you feel about your height?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope, I am just 160 cm. Weirdly enough, looking back, all the men I’ve dated were at least 6 feet 1.

[Spongebobssocks]

What would be the minimum height for you?

[TheUniqueOne96]

I'm a man and I WOULD date a woman taller than me.

My ideal woman would be a fair bit taller than me !

Describing My Ideal, Dream Girl

"Height wise, there is no ideal standard, but I think I'd be up to her shoulder..."

[Boomchakalaca]

If he shorter then me (im 5’2”) ill be the man of the household.

[Spongebobssocks]

💀😭🤣

[insteadfew]

You mean it you are taller than a man , you'd be dominate him in the relationship?

[crossdressingrihno]

Yeah absolutely would date a taller woman.
Actually sometimes it’s really fun having a tall girlfriend

[Spongebobssocks]

Thats cool! Kinda rare! Thanks for sharing:)

[crossdressingrihno]

Maybe it has to do with the fact that most of the people on my dad side of the family are 6 foot and above and that includes the women

[crossdressingrihno]

Could be something biological there.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah I guess. Thats really tall tho. I guess you could reach a lot of stuff easily. Just do us short people a favor and dont put your arms up when we are stuck on a crowded train..

[crossdressingrihno]

I’m the short one in the family. I’m probably 5,9 or 5,10. I slouch a lot though so I look shorter than that.

[Spongebobssocks]

You are still tall tho but ok.. are your sisters taller than you?

[crossdressingrihno]

I have one biological sister and yeah unfortunately she’s significantly taller. So is my brother.

[Spongebobssocks]

Wow thats intressting.. I guess that gened skipped you. But you are still tall maybe the Gene will skip to your kids

[crossdressingrihno]

I had a short mom.

[Spongebobssocks]

Oh sorry may she rest in peace.

[crossdressingrihno]

It’s fine. She was literally crazy.
more importantly. She had 3 kids and I was the short one. My brother was damn near 7 ft. My sister was a bit above 6 ft and I got stuck in the 5,9 club.

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay I get it my mom is crazy too..

Wow that height difference is huge!

[Anemone978]

No I don't think I could...
I remember I had this friend TJ in high school we got on really well (I think he liked me) he was good looking but his head only came up to my chin.. but I hated looking down at him like that it turned me off.. He most likely had a growth spurt and is probably tall now.. but yeah... at the time nah..

[htmndg183]

What were your heights?

[Anemone978]

@htmndg183 I don't know I was probably 5'1 at the time and he was like 4'11

[bamesjond0069]

I'd only consider a taller than me woman if she's rail thin. It's more about weight than height but there is such thing as proportions so realistically tall women that aren't thin will weigh too much.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah you wanna be able to pick her up?

[bamesjond0069]

Well easily pick her up. Yes.

[Spongebobssocks]

alright. what would that be max?

[bamesjond0069]

Well I usually weigh between 175 and 200.
Typically I prefer 125 or less but I can handle 140 or under.

[Anonymous]

I have dated guys shorter than me. What matters most is how he treatms me and other people. Height is really not much of an important factor to me. :)

[Spongebobssocks]

Cool thanks for sharing

[insteadfew]

How tall are you?

[Opinion Owner]

@insteadfew I'm 5' 3.5"

[insteadfew]

You've been with guys shorter than 5'3 too?

[Opinion Owner]

@insteadfew yeah, I've dated guys about 5'2. Many of the people in my family are on the shorter side - so I've kind of grown used to being around shorter people, men included. Though, the man I'm in a relationship with now on the taller side. But like I said, height is not much of a factor to me, it's how he treats me and other people is what matters most. :)

[Sirenboobzilla]

Well, my boyfriend of 2.5 years is 5'4" and I'm 5'11"

[Spongebobssocks]

Thats really rare! Intressting. How did you two meet?

[Sirenboobzilla]

At a mutual friend's party

[Spongebobssocks]

nice. wish you both the best!

[insteadfew]

What.. that's huge difference.
He approached you?

[Sirenboobzilla]

That he did. He's my brave hobbit! At a mutual friend's party. I had on a band's tour shirt and turned out we both went to the same show so he used that to make conversation

[insteadfew]

But isn't he a bit TOO MUCH short compared to you?
It's a HUGE and SIGNIFICANT difference

[Sirenboobzilla]

It's presented its challenges, sure. But he's treated me far better than every other guy I've dated

[insteadfew]

What about society? Do people look at you both in amusement? Am sure your female friends might have made jokes about it and even tried to persuade you not to date him?

[Sirenboobzilla]

Oh of course. That's been one of the challenges. My friends learned early on how intolerant I am about the subject. As for everyone else, it's as simple as this: my life, my choices.

[insteadfew]

Your height difference as as this much or it's more significant difference?

[insteadfew]

Do you wear heels 👠👠?

[Sirenboobzilla]

Pussy close to that yeah. I do on ocassion

[insteadfew]

Ehh? What? Pussy close to what? Lol where does pussy come in here..
Haha
Overall your boyfriend looks this short to you? Or much shorter?

[Sirenboobzilla]

Omg 😆 🤣 😆 🤣 😆 🤣 the autocorrect for the win! PRETTY close to that height difference. I think our height difference is just a tiny bit bigger than in that picture.

[insteadfew]

Ah lol your autocorrect is quite hilarious and naughty too 🤣 😂
Seriously, you still see him as masculine man and sexually attractive although you might feel there is no one standing next to you? Lol

[Sirenboobzilla]

What he lacks in height he more than makes up for in every other department

[insteadfew]

Ok. He even has bigger than average male part?

[Sirenboobzilla]

He's average there. I meant personality traits.

[insteadfew]

Haha ok , I misunderstood it totally 😋🤣
Average as in 6" ?

[Sirenboobzilla]

Yes, exactly

[insteadfew]

What are the personality traits that you find attractive despite him being a dwarf compared next to you?

[Sirenboobzilla]

He's a good listener and communicates very well with me. He's adventurous and likes to go out and explore with me. Take interest in what I like. Helps me around the apartment. Pays VERY close attention in the 🔥 department. And my favorite; he makes me ugly laugh constantly

[insteadfew]

Ugly laugh means?

[insteadfew]

Has he ever felt insecure or insufficient because of his height?

[Apple1996]

Almost no guys are shorter then me so this isn't even something I care about

[Spongebobssocks]

So taller!:)

[JosyJosy]

Doesn't bother me. Yes I would date shorter. But I wouldn't date Down. Big difference.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright cool!

[insteadfew]

How much shorter is ok?

[JosyJosy]

If you're not gonna be tyrion lannister, you're good

[insteadfew]

Who's this

[JosyJosy]

Google is your friend

[worldscolide]

I find it comical that women on here constantly say that height does not matter, yet the vote proves otherwise. How sad.

[Spongebobssocks]

Really? I rarely ever see women on here say height doesn't matter.😅

[ColHathi]

Over 80% of women wouldn't date someone shorter... That's just really fucked up. Jesus christ. What has the world come to.

[Spongebobssocks]

I wouldn't either. Its human nature..

But yeah the world is ugly.:)

[FunkyMonkee]

You find mm a woman taller than me and I'll date her! I'm 6' 9"!!

[Spongebobssocks]

Wow!

[FunkyMonkee]

*me, not mm

[ImalwaysrightOK]

I'm 6'3 so i would not, but what's sickening are the current 91% of women in the poll saying they wouldn't date a shorter guy. What would be bad about a 5'8 girl being with a 5'7 guy?

[Berethor]

The women here are honest, I appreciate that, short guys are looking unmasculine.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

@Berethor Height doesn’t define masculinity, neither do men let themselves be defined mate.

[koko22]

NO. i would not in any circumstance date any guy/man SHORTER than me... NO...

[Spongebobssocks]

Cool! Thanks for sharing :)

[insteadfew]

And your height?

[LiamJHayden]

I would. I'm 6'2 and I've come close. My tallest girlfriend was 6'1-1/2.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thats cool!

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I would date men shorter than I and women taller than I and fellow non-binary people despite their height. Height matters not, as it defines not a drop of personality. I think I dated a lass taller than I. It just puzzles me how many women here won’t date a short man! I’m 168cm.

[noohair]

I guess women are more shallow, but I can also say it could be part of their cavewoman brain looking for genetics.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yup! So would you?

[noohair]

I am not hung up on that issue. Yes I would.

[Shiningtempest]

I wouldn't date a woman taller than me because I can't handle the pressure that comes with dating a taller woman.

[Spongebobssocks]

I understand!:) how tall are you?

[Shiningtempest]

@spongebobssocks I am 5 feet 7 inches tall.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright cool! What pressure are you referring to with taller women?

[Shiningtempest]

@spongebobssocks Judgement from taller women's friend is one of the pressure is what I refer to.

[Anonymous]

I think my men should be taller than me, mature than me and more successful than me.

[Spongebobssocks]

👍🏻👍🏻

[snehajain1995]

Totally agree

[insteadfew]

And how tall are you

[Opinion Owner]

5.5 ..

[roseloyaa]

My fiance is shorter than me so what does that say 💪💕

[insteadfew]

How much shorter?

[Anonymous]

I would not date a woman taller than me, but I'm 6'3", so...

[Spongebobssocks]

Then its not an issue:)

[Anonymous]

I have no problem dating a taller women , not insecure about height. If the girl don't like you just for your height , she isn't worth it.

[Spongebobssocks]

👍🏻👍🏻

[alearningboy]

Yes it doesn't matter for me, I always wanted to have my girlfriend taller then me

[Spongebobssocks]

Intressting and rare! How come?:)

[alearningboy]

It was always my interest taller women then me. Some say the relationship will last longer.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

If you’re lucky you’ll have her boogaloogoa in your face when you’re doing the deed, they really can be fun lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm a man and would date a woman taller than me

[Kaamraj]

I would because I know I am stronger than her and richer than her. So the other qualities which I can control would far over ride the handicap I can't control.

[TacosRAwesome]

No. I want to feel small and delicate when I'm around my partner.

[insteadfew]

So how taller should he be?

[TacosRAwesome]

@insteadfew to be honest it's more about having a sturdy presence than height but probably I would say like at least 4 inches taller than me.

[Heather0xx]

No I like to wear heels too much and I don’t like to feel like the man in the relationship

[insteadfew]

What's your height?

[Heather0xx]

I’m 5”2

[Spongebobssocks]

Cool! Thanks for sharing:)

[insteadfew]

So how tall do you like men?

[Adam1978]

I would but she should stop wearing any heels or other length boosters. The woman in the picture isn't taller it's the heels.

[Pudsmucker]

I would not mind having a woman's tits my face while I'm screwing her.

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

I can relate brother, it’s a fun roller-coaster.

[Adaeva]

I have plenty of choices. Therefore, I don't date guys shorter than me.

[Spongebobssocks]

You 14?

[Adaeva]

Correct.

[Spongebobssocks]

Well my best advice to you is learn how to check if a source is accurate. Always look for the evidance yourself in things evan if someone claims there is data. And check if that data is accurate by refrences.

Does your parents know you are here?

[Adaeva]

My parents know I have access to the internet. They don't monitor everything I see on the internet, nor should they.

[Spongebobssocks]

I see you feel that way now.:)

[insteadfew]

And how tall are you

[Adaeva]

@insteadfew 5'-6"

[Fromdusktilldawn]

wow 54%, thats a frightening number. Considering the primitive instinct behind this, that during the stone age the women is better protected against sabre tooth tigers with a tall man on her side, its a relic of our outdated ancestral origins.

[htmndg183]

Gladly. I actually prefer her being the taller one.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I prefer short men anyway.

[Spongebobssocks]

Intressting how come?

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

I think that on average shorter men are perceived as greater lovers then taller men (for the women who’ve dated anyway), there’s probably some truth in there somewhat. I think that height itself doesn’t cause this, but the mentality that it brings does. On average taller men have more opportunities and chances with women and many of them take it for granted speaking from experience, somewhat shorter men on the other hand have had to work on themselves and tried to compensate for it more for the most part i believe. And even “shorter men” will probably be taller then the average woman so i don’t see why people are so obsessive over it anyway, we taller men and shorter men both have our unique challenges and problems. Don’t see why people even let height define them anyway, it’s 90% genetics and 10% luck 1% of being a healthy lad.

[Spongebobssocks]

@DamianTheSmikkelbeer yeah I agree. Good observation!

[insteadfew]

Shorter than you?

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

@spongebobssocks Wish it was merely a good observation, more like being one of those tall assholes once that did the job. I did eventually realize and decided to grow as a person, so in the end it was worth being a A-hole.

[Spongebobssocks]

@DamianTheSmikkelbeer haha thats harsh but alright

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

@spongebobssocks Sometimes being harsh on yourself is a must, and i genuinely believe that calling me a A-hole back then is still too light all things considered because i was certainly a serial-heart breaker and i seemed to get off on it aswell🥚

[Spongebobssocks]

@DamianTheSmikkelbeer what made you change?

[DamianTheSmikkelbeer]

A mix of things really, most important one was definitely my last-long term relationship which ended quite some time ago and made me re-think my actions and the way of thinking i’ve had over the years. We loved, but we were incompatible to be romantically invested for multiple years and i definitely played a part in that as i kept raising the stakes for myself aka trying to cut away what was left of our spiritual connectiinand kept telling myself that i needed another horse to bet on just in-case which admittedly is despicable and was very disrespectful to her and our relationship. Another thing is that i simply got tired of myself and my bad habits, sometimes you can notice how you and your environment has changed and you want to take a whole other direction and improve. And one thing that was very crucial for me to change and to stay this way: The females i respected basically drilled it in me after confronting me about it when i complained about my love-situation, my female-friends but most important of all my mother and she’s gotten fairly-old but still hits hard and doesn’t give a damn about the backlash. Because of her i’ve realized how soon it can be over with and how shameful my past’s behavior was, nowadays i only enter a relationship all the way and will consider my partner as worthy & deserving of respect and love as being the potential mother of my children (s)

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I am 157 cm. I guess I am just invisible to moat women lol😅.

[insteadfew]

It sucks?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

@insteadfew Not really. I don't have that many interactions with girls overall. But with the girls I have, they really don't seem to mind it.

But I don't really know.

[insteadfew]

How tall are the girls with whom you interact?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

@insteadfew Many of them are my height. But much more girls are above my height. But they are really cool! It did not even come to my mind at that time.

Many girls are cool, I know. But the ones who are not cool with the height get highlighted unfortunately.

[smashleyy]

In and around the same height just not significantly shorter

[insteadfew]

How tall are you

[smashleyy]

5’6 maybe 5’7

[insteadfew]

So you can go for around 5'5-5'6 guy?

[smashleyy]

Yeah. I’ve been with guys the same height as me

[Tall_Guy9898]

I don't care about height in women I just want my sons to be ultra tall, I am already tall if I marry a tall woman I can hope my sons will be giant beasts who will bully and beat the shit out of thier peers

[Spongebobssocks]

You want your child to bully people? Why?

[Levin]

I prefer to be at least a head taller than a girl I am dating. I'm 5' 11.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

While I prefer shorter women, i don't mind dating a taller girl.

[ilovelamp]

Climbed mt. everest once or twice😏

[Spongebobssocks]

Nice!!!

[6886x2763forever]

Honestly, I don't think that's possible. My height is 6'4 now and my the end of my puberty I'll grow into a giant of 6'5 lol. And my girl is cute, she's of 5'4 I guess. Or a bit taller than that. I prefer my girl to be shorter than me.

[Anonymous]

No. I'm very short. I actually wouldn't date a guy that's under six foot.

[shades777]

tried it dont like it, hugging upwards makes me feel like a "Im a big kid now"