Girls, Why won't most attractive women be willing to give average men a chance? Also, why won't women lower their dating standards?

[smartman12]

[Anonymous]

We will for a man who seems to be the full package, average or not

[smartman12]

This comment is describing a major problem with today's women. Like where in the world is your compassion. Men want women who will stay with them through the good and bad times. We don't want women who only date and marry us when we're successful. In other words, we don't want women who only date us if we're the complete package because that is the very definition of a goldigger. You need to read up and watch videos that describe what dating is actually like for average and below average looking me. You will learn a lot of us don't get dates or sex very often. The few women I had the opportunity to sleep with left after learning I hadn't had sex for several years. Needless to say, I went 2-3 years after that experience where was able to get a woman to come back to my place and into my room. We're not women. Most of us can't just go out and get a woman to have sex or dates with. Women deserve to experience what dating is like for men so you appreciate us for more than our looks or money. We aren't ATMs or disposable sex toys.

[Opinion Owner]

I never said anything about money nor success. Gtfo making assumptions. When i say full package, I’m saying I want someone with both looks and personality. And then i said average or not. Average can still be attractive. So don’t come at me sideways. I’m muting this question since you want to jump on me for giving MY opinion

[smartman12]

I was describing my experience and giving my opinion not attacking you. I apologize for coming off that way! I've had a rough time. It's hard for me to receive feedback of any kind. I've been hurt by a lot of past situations.

[Opinion Owner]

I apologize as well

[smartman12]

I'm considering transitioning to a woman because being a guy today sucks.