Girls, I'm 37, haven't had sex in 7 years, and never been in a relationship. I'm close to giving up on women. How do I fix my situation?

[smartman12]

I'm also unemployed and actively interviewing for a full-time job. So ladies, what steps can I take besides getting a job, working out at the gym, and eating healthy to make myself desirable to women I find attractive?

[OptimisticGirl]

Why are you struggling to find employment?

Women tend to look for men who are stable and have a sense of direction. This usually looks like a career and owning a house but that’s definitely not all there is to it.

Perhaps you can have an interesting or cool hobby that gets their attention?

[smartman12]

Because have been fired 13 times in 6 years, got low grades in undergrad, went to a crappy college, and took a long-term to learn how to socializing. I'm basically seen as unhirable by companies and undatable by women. I've been thinking of taking my life over the past 2 weeks because of how lonely and depressing my employment & dating life is right now. I hate dating and hate being unemployment even more.

[Nikki1989]

You must be doing something wrong.

[smartman12]

Obviously, I'm doing something wrong. My question, how do I fix my situation? I spent my teens, 20s, and almost all of my 30s alone unable to get a girlfriend. However, during this time, I've been most unemployed and depressed for being single. Honestly, I want to be someone else or go to heaven at this point. Dating is a living nightmare and tired of talking to women who have never experienced true loneliness: no friends, no dates, no sex, and no job for many years to the point of wanting to give up entirely on life.

[LazerBean]

Take testosterone supplements.

[smartman12]

What will taking testosterone do for me?

[LazerBean]

Hopefully make you masculine.