Am I overreacting and jealous? Is it a turn off?

[Anonymous]

So I started seeing a guy two months ago. Turns out he knew my sister before me (6 years before me) I found this out as I saw he liked her profile photo. And he liked a recent photo of her (with her husband) if I bring it up with him that he liked her photo will it give stalker vibes? I think they have mutual friends but I don’t think they have met (hope not) I really need to start thinking positive about myself.

[Anonymous]

It is normal to feel a bit insecure and jealous in a new relationship, especially if you feel that there is a history between your partner and someone else. However, it is important to remember that your partner chose to be with you, and liking a photo of someone else does not necessarily mean anything more than a friendly gesture. It is also important to communicate your feelings with your partner in a calm and respectful way, without accusing them of anything.

If you feel uncomfortable bringing up the topic of your sister's photo, you can focus on building trust and communication with your partner in other ways. Try to focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and the things that you appreciate about your partner. Remember that jealousy and overreacting can be a turn-off for some people, so it is important to manage your emotions and communicate effectively.

[Asker]

The thing is we are just seeing each other at the moment. So I think bringing it up will be awkward and shows. I don’t trust him. I definitely do not think they have history. She definitely has never dated him. They don’t live in the same state. Plus she was overseas for a while. They just have mutual friends. So maybe I’m being jealous for no reason. You are right he is with me.

[Opinion Owner]

It's good to hear that you're currently seeing each other and that you recognize bringing up your concerns may make things awkward. However, it's important to trust your instincts and feelings. If you feel uneasy about your partner's communication with this mutual friend, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns. You can express your feelings without accusing or blaming him, and see how he responds. It's possible that he may be able to provide some reassurance or explanation that can alleviate your concerns. At the same time, it's important to try not to let jealousy consume you and to focus on building trust and communication in your relationship.

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, you're overreacting. Just ask your sister and boyfriend.

[Amanda2447]

" hey guess what, I was on my sister's page and I saw you had liked her photo. Lol i didn't know you know her" and that should open up the conversation into him telling you how... don't be insecure

[In_Trance]

Overreacting