Have you ever pretended not to like your crush? If so, what signs did you typically show lol?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 omg can’t believe you’re asking this.

Yes I have I think to make him jealous and so he can confront me with his feelings so we can stop this game 🤣. This was in high school by the way

[mobiusforniner]

Id ignore her and walk past her with total indifference until she couldnt take it anymore. She would come running back, giving me some gift or trying to buy back my attention. Id reciprocate, shower her with lovely dates and gift until she would pull away and ghost me. And the cycle repeats.

Gawd, love is so beautiful and destructive.

[shades777]

yea in high school, as an adult i just approach, usually successful but I fail sometimes

[Jazzy54]

All the time. 😂 I just treat him like everyone else. No special treatment so that he doesn’t figure it out.

[CarolinaJones]

I would simply be shy around them or just keep these feelings to myself while hanging out with them

[Yucy_Gluttony]

IF YOU PRETEND YOU SUCK AT LOVE. NO.
You can be cheeky and playful, but those are still signs to show him you like him.

[Sasha0426]

I just stay away from them as much as possible until my feelings go away. And not once have I ever told a guy I liked him.

[spartan55]

And how is that working out for you?

[Sasha0426]

Pretty well, actually.

[spartan55]

Do you mean in terms of avoiding even the chance of rejection?

[Sasha0426]

No, not that. I can tell if a guy doesn’t like me back through body language. So I don’t really pursue anything.

[spartan55]

I don't know how you could know that for sure.

[spartan55]

This whole idea is just beyond stupid to me.

[Sasha0426]

Why?

[spartan55]

Why would I act like I didn't like a girl that I really did? STUPID

[Monalisa77]

Because ur worried they don't like u back

[spartan55]

So what if they don't? Move on.

[Monalisa77]

But how do we know they dont if we haven't asked them?

[Monalisa77]

Plus its not that easy to move on if u were really into them and felt they were too

[spartan55]

So your solution to all of this is to ignore him? Brilliant.

[Monalisa77]

Depends what vibe ur getting from Them But i wouldn't say ignore him, i try not to make it obvious incase he rejects me but i do try subtly to get him to notice me and just chat like i do anyone else. Probably why I've not had a boyfriend cos im too shy

[spartan55]

Sorry, but your strategy/philosophy is terrible.

[Monalisa77]

So do u expect me to jump on them and act desperate? Lol

[spartan55]

See, you are going from one extreme to the other which is ridiculous. Also, with respect, girls are completely clueless about what is ACTUALLY desperate vs what they think guys will think is desperate.

[Monalisa77]

Have we spoke before? I feel like i recognize ur username

[spartan55]

I think so. Your username rings a bell. I couldn't tell you what the topic was not when we discussed it though. 😁

[Monalisa77]

Lol i see u around a lot aswell 😂

[DizzyDesii]

And risk losing them? Nah lmao

[Akam93]

No I haven't. Not like any of them like me back.

[msc545]

Women usually are the ones that do this - not men.