Girls, did you ever show signs of interest to a guy friend and without you realizing it he thought you meant you liked him?

[Anonymous]

Or guys, did it ever happen to you?

And for overall, I mean showing what could be misinterpreted as signs you liked him when really it was as a friend and not for interest? Like maybe holding hands or laying your head on his shoulder and stuff like that, and you thought you were just being friendly but he misinterpreted it?

If this did happen to you, then what came of it?

Did you ever do that intentionally to confuse a guy?

[tokyolights]

I've had it happen to me from a guy I was close with and I've accidentally done it to people. I've constantly been called naturally flirty but I am just expressive and kinda extroverted 🤷🏼‍♀️ Most of the time I realized I was flirting after the fact, but usually it's cause I'm just flirting BACK when someone is flirting with me. I have a few friends that I've had to lightly reject because I had thought our relationship with just friend-flirty, but they felt deeper about it then I did and that was unfortunate.

[Asker]

That really sucks yeah

[devilish-cutie]

guys constantly mistake my friendliness for me being interested, im an extrovert so go figure
but if a girl that is a friend that did something obviously romance like hold your hand or laying her head on your shoulder, there are very high chances she likes you more than a friend and is waiting for your to make some move on her...

[Asker]

Cool thank you

[Asker]

Yes she is very extroverted

[Asker]

Can I message you

[devilish-cutie]

if you need help ok

[Asker]

Okay

[random_girl95]

Honestly that happened to me yes. But I was just being friendly with the guy and at some point one of our common friends asked him what was the deal because he was behaving strangely and my friend said that he was scared I wanted to pursue him romantically. However we went over that and we friends with that guy now.

[Asker]

That’s funny but nice it worked out

[random_girl95]

Well I was clear from the beginning that I wanted him as a friend, and he wasn't attracted to me romantically but I don't know honestly why at that time he was confused lol.