Should I take her back?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating a girl for a while now and ever since its been unbelievably amazing. But in the last 3 days, we've had some arguments that almost made us end things twice. Yesterday she asked me if I wanted us to get into a more srs relationship, I told her I wasn't sure because the last few days had been so rocky so she decided to end things. Now she's apologizing. What should I do?

[OlderAndWiser]

What do you want?

[Asker]

I think I'm gona think about it n just make my decision. I still love and respect her

[OlderAndWiser]

She responded wth the breakup move because she expected an instant "of course I want you for the rest of our lives" and, when you didn't respond that way, she felt rejected. But she recognizes she over-reacted and is apologizing. That is a good sign.

[OlderAndWiser]

One thing to guide your decision: if you don't try to get this resolved and you move forward without her, will you look back later and regret that you didn't make the effort?

[Asker]

You were spot on with your opinion. We made up yesterday evening

[OlderAndWiser]

Good luck!

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[In_Trance]

No, move on