So I was talking to this girl who’s also getting engaged to this other guy. We’re long distance, and I didn’t know she was engaged to this guy, till halfway through our relationship. I made a dumb choice on being her secret boy toy. But I didn’t take her seriously anymore as a partner. I just thought of her as someone who I’ll have sex with. Anyways, I finally broke up with her because she wasn’t going to leave her fiancée. And so a month and a half goes by, she’s constantly trying to reach out to me. I ignore her, and I had sex with two different women in the meantime. Anyways, last night, she texted me again, and I responded. She told me how I’m the love of her life. And how she can’t live without me. Saying all these sweet things to me. Begging me to come back to her. And to top it off, she sends me videos of her playing with herself, and I get turned on. So getting caught in the moment I say “yes” to going back with her. I even told her about how I had with two different women since she’s been gone, and she says she doesn’t care as long as I’m with her. But that weirds me out because she’s the jealous kind. Anyways I just don’t know what to make of the situation?🤷🏻♂️
Is it dumb to go back to her?
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First of all "she wasn’t going to leave her fiancée" (fiancée or fiancé?)
To say it crudely, You unknowingly wore someone's shoe. Then you threw it away knowing it was not new. Would you go to the thrash and pick it up and wear it again? (Sorry girls, no disrespect of any kind intended. I have to make it really crude to drive home my point.)
Hence in my opinion, block her and move on. (And if she somehow mange to contact you, reminder her that she's engaged.)
You shouldn't go back to her you have a toxic relationship
Good riddance stick up for yourself