Guys, How can I get him back?

[Heygirlhey1234]

I have been spending about 6/7 months with a guy. The timing of when we started wasn’t great for either of us so we agreed to just have fun. We started hanging out about once a week, and then gradually twice and three times. He told me he has started talking to someone else. I realized that I do want to try with him and disclosed my feelings. We spend time and talked after he told me he had those feelings for me before, but because that’s not what we agreed to so he didn’t let himself have those feelings and he’s interested in this other girl (who he’s been talking to for a month). What I can I do to try and get him to have those feelings again.

[Anonymous]

It's important to respect the other person's feelings and decisions in a situation like this. If the guy you've been seeing has indicated that he's interested in someone else and doesn't have romantic feelings for you at this time, it's important to accept and respect that decision.

While it's understandable that you may want to try and rekindle his feelings for you, it's important to approach the situation with caution and respect for his boundaries. It's possible that he may still have feelings for you, but it's also possible that his feelings have genuinely shifted towards someone else.

If you do want to try and reconnect with him, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation about your feelings and intentions. Be clear about what you're looking for and what you want from the relationship, but also be prepared to listen to his perspective and respect his decisions.

It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and not invest too much time or energy into someone who isn't reciprocating your feelings. If he's not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you, it may be best to focus on moving on and finding someone who is a better match for you.

[In_Trance]

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