Is it a good idea to date a guy my friend didn't want?

[Anonymous]

So my friend wanted to set me up with this guy but later learned she thought he was really cute but too immature for her. So she set me up with him.

[Anonymous]

It's ultimately up to you to decide if you want to date the guy your friend didn't want to date. However, it's important to consider your friend's reasons for not wanting to date him and whether or not those reasons might be relevant to your own preferences and priorities in a relationship.

If your friend thought he was too immature for her, it's possible that you may also find that his level of maturity or compatibility with you is not what you're looking for in a relationship. However, it's also possible that you may have a different perspective or feel like you have a good connection with him despite any potential concerns.

Either way, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with your friend about your decision and be respectful of any concerns or feelings she may have. It's possible to pursue a relationship with someone your friend wasn't interested in without damaging your friendship, as long as you approach it with honesty and respect.

[Anonymous]

It depends. Did he want to date your friend? If so, I would say no. You don't want to feel like his second choice.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Sure, as long as she's ok with it.