What makes a man a loser?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It is not productive or healthy to label someone as a "loser." Everyone has their own unique experiences and challenges, and it's important to approach each person with empathy and understanding.

That being said, some behaviors or traits may be considered undesirable or unattractive in a partner or individual. For example, someone who consistently engages in harmful or abusive behavior towards others, lacks empathy or accountability, is dishonest or manipulative, or is not actively working towards personal growth and self-improvement may be seen as undesirable by some individuals.

It's important to remember that everyone is on their own journey and has their own strengths and weaknesses. Rather than labeling someone as a "loser," it's more productive to focus on treating others with respect and compassion, and to prioritize finding partners or friends who align with your values and treat you with kindness and respect.

[DarkLegacy]

Good answer

[Opinion Owner]

@DarkLegacy thank you

[HighValue]

Doing drugs, being untrustworthy to friends and family, living off welfare and food stamps without putting in effort to improve their situation, hiding at work to avoid doing the job they are getting paid for, not protecting his girlfriend/wife/kids from harm. I think those things can make a man a loser.

[slatyb]

He takes no responsibility and blames others for his situation.

See "Clerks"... one character was a slacker, he was happy being a slacker, doing minimal work for enough to get by and enjoying his time off. Not a loser.

[Miristheiss]

Never having a job

Raising, unknown to him, that he is raising another man's child he thinks is his.

Marrying some ex-stripper or sex worker.

Addicted to drugs or alcohol.

[Sparkie460]

If he has no car, no job, no money, living in his mom's basement, disrespectful towards people

[Nikki1989]

A total lack of motivation.

[Anonymous]

Abandonment of children.

[riverrat3]

Himself