Girls, Have you ever approached a man?

[Anonymous]

Why or why not? Do you expect men to fall in your lap or would you go and fight for the one you need?

I’ve approached men

No I’ve never

[SueShe]

No, I have never approached a man for the purpose of dating. The reason is that I am not interested in dating because dating has the lowest priority in my life. I am focusing on my studies and I have no room for diversion. It is not possible to give 100% of your attention to both issues at the same time.

My primary aim in life right now is to finish my education and that has precedence over fornication, which I don't find important at all.

Also, I am not expecting anyone to fall in my lap. Not now, not tomorrow.

[FictionalCharacter]

I have.

I don’t know how to explain it. But in my teenage and in my 20s, I was really shy back then. I always kept waiting for men to approach me. But it never happened. Then over the years, that’s when girls started posting body acceptance on social media. Which became a trend over the years.

It did help with my self esteem and confidence a little bit. Since people were accepting each other physical flaws. That now, I thought I’d shoot my shot and approach men more to land a relationship.

Still hasn’t happened. But approaching men is not as bad as seems and I still approach men in public to this day.

[Anonymous]

Every time I approached, I felt like the other person didn't like it. Perhaps he had this idea that if the girl approaches a guy then she is not a good girl.

[Asker]

No I disagree it’s silly to think that. Maybe he was just a bit surprised as it doesn’t happen often.

[Opinion Owner]

But then they ignore u more.

[Opinion Owner]

Im living in conservative place. Here people dont think good about a girl approaching a guy.

[Asker]

Makes sense. You are Muslim I take, so maybe don’t do that. Won’t your parents find someone suitable for you?

[Opinion Owner]

I have found already. They are not so conservative, i have choice to choose.

[Sasha0426]

I never approached a man nor will I ever. Men have scared me shitless to approach them.

[Asker]

You look scarier than most men though.

[Sasha0426]

How so?

[Asker]

You look a bit crazy

[Sasha0426]

I honestly don’t know what to say to that 😅

[catiecatie]

I’ve approached men before. I’m actually going to do it here next weekend. Hopefully things work out! Wish me luck! Hopefully he doesn’t have a girlfriend.

[LazerBean]

Nope, never needed to and wouldn't want a man I have to lead anyway. And yes, they all did fall into my lap.

[Asker]

Classic entitled female who’s probably a nightmare to be in a relationship with.

[Asker]

Even men fall into your lap and you aren’t hot

[LazerBean]

Stay angry, lady

[Jazzy54]

Yes. I’ve always been bold with opposite sex. The feelings have never been mutual, but that doesn’t deter me. 😊

[Flower7]

I’ve tried to initiate things but was always rejected, so I don’t do it anymore.

[Smashingdoozy]

Absolutely. Can't get what you want if you don't try, respectfully.

[Nikki1989]

A few times.

[Asker]

Cool. What drew you to those men?

[Nikki1989]

One time a guy was wearing a t-shirt of one of my favorite bands, so that was an instant ice-breaker, so we just started talking.

[DermalPunch]

Yes, I don't advise it.

[Anonymous]

Approached simply to degrade my worth

[Opinion Owner]

Men shouldn't be approached first