Girls, have you ever approached a guy?

[qwer1234]

Have you ever approached a guy?

Yes! - What was the result?

No! - Why not?

[wildfire5288]

No, I've always believed that if a guy is really interested in me he'll come to me. I just don't feel comfortable approaching guys because I feel like girls approaching guys looks desperate and they might as well have a sign on their head that says, "love me," or they're making it obvious that all they want is sex, which is fine, but then in the morning they're gonna be called a whore and I don't want that either. That and cute guys just make me nervous, I get quiet and act like a completely different person. I've always felt that most guys aren't interested in me (well, at least not the ones I'd like to be interested in me) and I don't want to embarrass myself or become some sort of joke with his friends (and I've heard plenty of guys make jokes about girls and wonder why they even bothered approaching them).

[amhc168]

I usually think the guy should make the first move. Then again it depends on what you mean by "approach". This year I did go upto this guy who I met, and I wasn't even sure if I really liked him or not but I just felt a connection with, and I gave him my home number in a piece of paper. He says it was the bravest thing he's ever seen someone do... it was in a university exam room in front of about 800 people still wrting the exam and he was the TA watching that no one cheated off each other. He called me that same night and asked me out. he he

[selfishstars]

Sure, lots of times. Most of the time it has resulted favourably (the guy was interested too).

I don't think it's the "guy's role" to approach a girl. I'm perfectly capable of approaching a guy/telling someone I like them, and it's not like guys are more capable (less shy/more confident, less afraid of rejection, etc). I think that if you like someone, whether you're male or female, just go for it instead of waiting and hoping that the other person will make the first move.

[xxxplicitbarbiex]

No, I have never approached a guy, but that doesn't mean that I don't want to. There is a guy at work that I like, but who I've only talked to once. I would love to get to know him better, but I never see him around anymore, which makes the 'approach' idea a little complicated.

[xxxplicitbarbiex]

Oh wait.. yeah I did! In highschool, lol. He was an older guy. I was 16 and he was 18. It took me a while to do it too, but I finally did it. I approached him while he was at his locker. We just talked a little, but it turned out to be a success because he liked me after that! :)

[lAcadial]

I haven't approached a guy ever, I'm really shy and I would sad if someone would turn me down that I find attractive, I'd probably have my self esteem go down even lower, I'd rather have someone come to me ( whichisn't likely) than to go and be let down, or just have no one come to me at all

[sweetiebratinelie]

Yes..I did that when I was in my 1st year in college.I like him then.The result we became friends until we graduated form college..

[Simple-Simonette]

Yes.

Some guys went out with me, others blew me off and the last guy I approached ended up marrying me.

[askanythingxo]

yes but with a friend, not by myself lol. and they just got our numbers and we keep in touch, but nothing more though.

[Anonymous]

Yes. The first time was in the third grade. And then I did it a couple times when I was drunk. I would never approach a guy sober.

[Brando]

Why not? Why only with the social lubricant?

[Opinion Owner]

It's too much of a role reversal. If I have to approach, then do I have to ask for his digits? And then if I have to ask for his digits, do I have to ask him out on a date? And if I take him out, should I pay? No. In the beginning, the girl shouldn't lift a finger. That's the way it works. The guy courts the gal.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, if I like a guy, I'm shy around him. Super shy.

[greeneyedgal1]

Yes! And...I got rejected! Never again.

[ILoveCefalu]

I have most definitely made a move on a guy.

[defytraditiongirl]

many times

[qwer1234]

what were the results?

[loren565]

yes rejected