Could you getting more money cause guys to reject you? Is this possible?

[jennifer_bloom]

When I picture myself making around $40,000 a year, the idea of dating a guy fills me with joy, but when I believe I will make over $400,000, now all of a sudden there is no joy in dating this same guy, but he doesn't make a lot of money at his job. Part time hours and as far as I know he is paid close to minimum wage. He is very intelligent and nice but has a disability. I had a dream years ago that if my power increased, my desires might change and I would no longer like the same people or the same foods or support the same social justice problem resolutions.

[Uenvy694u]

The way i look at it. Making more doesn't aleays bring the u happiness. Reason being the people u around wasn't ur friend for money. Now that u make more u get around different people. Who have different views about people who makes less them. Bad as i hate 2 say it many people making that kind of money. Over time become snobby. Stay true 2 ur friends. The ones that stick with u thur thick and thin. Remember the grass isn't always greener on the side. Look at making more money as a chance 2 save more for an early retirement.

[TooHot2Care]

So, when you have money? You’re going to want to date up.

Like, if I made over 400k per year, I’d want models or porn stars.

i mean….. I want models and porn stars now, but I’m not content to just watch porn and follow on instagram.

Of course the same guy doesn’t wow you.
Can you even imagine the difference in experience, drive, intelligence, ambition and social skills between someone who makes 400k per year without a trust fund or rich parents and someone who makes 40k per year? Like, even if this guy has muscles on his muscles? So do a lot of rich men.

of course dating that same guy doesn’t wow you, you have absolutely nothing in common : not even worlds. 😂

[shades777]

it wasn't real love in the first place, you needed him but you didn't want him, so my theory is women making more money can lead to depopulation because of how we are hardwired to our roles in society, if a man don't provide he ain't a man, so by making more money who's providing now?
Now a woman has to find a man she respect because women respect some mens worth by his wallet in that case a man has to make double to triple before she's comfortable bragging to her friends, aka yea I make $400k but my boyfriend is a millionaire.
its always that "but" and the shame associated with dating a man society deems less vaunted.
take asap rocky and rihanna for example she's a billionaire and he's a millionaire but she csn brag on him because he's very cool and zillions of woman want him, and there ain't that many cool billionaires she relates too

[RealMarek]

Probably not, but an obsession with getting rich will be off-putting to any wise man.

[TooHot2Care]

Uhhh….. what? Bro, I have an obsession with getting rich. A girl with that obsession sounds like a good partner to build with….

[RealMarek]

@TooHot2Care There are exceptions to every rule. Studies in evolutionary psychology have been done about this matter.

[VikingWarLord]

Dudes don't really care how much a chic makes.

If she's hot we're interested whether rich or poor

[Ben487]

very few people on the planet earn 400,000 a year. why do you think you would be one of them. It's like the top 2 percent of Americans.

[Whatisthatname]

Why wouldn't you date the same guy if you make more money? Doesn't make any sense to me.

[Tonitos]

no, I will love you even more

[YaseminSirketikli]

so you just used him