I don't feel like my boyfriend cares about me anymore.. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I've been with him for 2 years, or almost 2 years now and it has been great. We ended up talking a break a week or two ago, though I didn't want one, but he said it would be best to give each other space. Ever since that break, I have felt like he just doesn't love me anymore. Even when we did start talking again after the break and things went back to normal, I still just felt like things weren't the same anymore. How do I get over this feeling?

[Anonymous]

Don’t take breaks, it’s like soft launching an official split up and it’s counterproductive to moving forward as a couple. You see, now he’s gotten a taste of what it was like as a single person and it’s quite possible he likes it better. I’d say to sit down and have a conversation but I think the time for that would’ve been before agreeing to a break. Of course you could still try it, and if you do then be very clear. Tell him that you need reassurance sometimes whether it’s with his words or his actions doesn’t matter, but it’s important for your peace of mind. If he doesn’t want to show you love or work with you to better the relationship then you’ve got to let him go. I know you love the guy but there’s nothing lonelier than being in a relationship all alone.

[Anonymous]

Dump his ass and move on?