Do guys lose interest in someone if they dont see their crush for over a month?

[Anonymous]

he liked me for a year nearly too

Yeah

No

[Summeroflove]

It depends. It really depends. It depends on the guy and the crush. Some crushes I liked for a LONG time and others came and gone… it just depends.


Maybe you should express your feelings so you can make sure that doesn’t happen if he likes ylu

[glennos89]

Depends on how close you 2 are I guess. But not seeing eachother for so long can be a trigger to seek attention elsewhere. But only 1 way to find out... Just ask him straight up

[ShesRad80]

not always, depends on the connection, chemistry etc

[CaptainOverthink]

A good amount of distance is good. Like 2-3 days up to a week. Depending on your relational arrangement, any more than a week could be damaging.
You hanging out must be part of your norms otherwise you'll drift slowly into different lanes.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Depends on why. If I'm deployed then no. If you're on a business trip then no. If you just have no time for me, I've already found someone else.

[FilmGuy93]

Depends entirely on why I hadn't seen her, but that usually wouldn't destroy my interest in her.

[Venymal]

No, sometimes I don’t see someone for a very long time and then it’s like “Wow! I forgot how beautiful she is or how much I like her” etc.

[mommymommymommy]

I haven't heard from mine in 3 days. Not sure why

[BlackHoleX]

I started losing interest if it goes on for too long. How are you going to build a connection? But it all depends on what the situation is.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, but wouldn't anyone?

[sheikalana]

"Out of sight out of mind"

[MementoMori777]

Depends if he falls out of love quick or not

[imawfulatusernames]

I mean who would not…!

[Asker]

I mean I’ve had crushes last over a year after leaving school and not seeing that person so

[Anonymous]

in my experience, yes.

[Jamie05rhs]

If she's hiding on purpose, then yeah.

[Fuentes]

Depends on the guy

[Anonymous]

Depends who they run into in that time.

[Anonymous]

Quite possibly