What to do in this situation?

[cranberrypie]

Should I tell my boyfriend I was thinking of another person the other day he is not a jealous boyfriend and he doesn't care for me having male friends either but in this situation this guy I was thinking of was someone I talk to a year ago and some months even before I hooked up with my boyfriend me and this guy had a flirting friendship or whatever u want to call it but use to tell eachother a lot of things we lost in contact though

Tell boyfriend

Don't tell him

[kylee2437]

Sounds like you don’t want a relationship. Break up with your boyfriend - he sounds like a great guy that deserves a loving girlfriend that is mature enough to realize having a healthy boyfriend is better than chasing the low quality guy. You are immature no offense.

[cranberrypie]

In the matter of fact I did tried to break up with him twice but no he might harm himself because he seems like a leach I'm not immature and he Is a great guy that should turn loose

[kylee2437]

Then he is just as immature if he threatens to harm himself. Best bet is to let go of him. Chances of him harming himself is slim and he’s saying that to be manipulative

[Effably]

You are allowed to think about people you know. I see no harm in keeping this to yourself. If you start wanting to act on it or this person becomes an active part of your life, that's when you should revisit the whole thing.

[Iron_Man]

This is horrible. This is the new break up coming awful awful. Why did you do this

[cranberrypie]

Oh so u can control what u think?

[cranberrypie]

I did nothing to the poor guy

[boobliker]

he will if you leave him out?

[cranberrypie]

I think of that other person every blue moon but the other day I work reminisce of our old conversations

[cranberrypie]

I did thought about telling my boyfriend though

[In_Trance]

how long have you been with him?

[cranberrypie]

Been with boyfriend 4 months the other guy I'm talking about I lost contact with some months ago

[In_Trance]

break up with the 4 mo guy, stop talking to the other guy and find someone else

[cranberrypie]

I tried breaking up with him twice he is holding on like a leech if I do breakup I am afraid he might do something stupid to himself he claims he can't do without me

[In_Trance]

All the more reason you need to break up.