What does someone mean when they ask you to open up more?

[Tomisworthless]

[petitedollbabee]

Be more emotionally vulnerable with them, tell them more about yourself or your past.

[Tomisworthless]

Is that necessary

[petitedollbabee]

It’s what opening up means

[Tomisworthless]

But why would I if I’m a closer gay and afraid of not being accepted by people isn’t it best to just keep to myself

[Tomisworthless]

I’m sure she will figure it out or already has suspected by now

[petitedollbabee]

You don’t have to disclose that to her. Just tell her about your past but leave that part out if you don’t want to tell her.

[Tomisworthless]

What past how would talking about that with someone I just met mean anything seems like a lack of boundaries

[Fromdusktilldawn]

its a trap, dont do it
if you open up to them, they'll use it against you later on

[Tomisworthless]

Fully agree

[Anonymous]

They want you to be less secretive and trusting.