I had to reschedule a date yesterday for today because of something with my kids. I apologized and he said it was okay, then I said I am really looking forward to seeing him and he hearted my message. Then I suggested a time and place for meeting up today. He has seen it but not replied. I sent it yesterday afternoon and now it is morning, so I hate when my plans has to be on hold because of waiting on someone. Normally he always text me straight away and good night and everything.
I think he is down about me cancelling last night. I don’t know if I should try to ask him about it, right now I don’t even know if we are still on for today.
But honestly I am tired of stuff like this from previous relationships, I don’t want to deal with moodiness and stonewalling because of a small thing, if you have a problem please tell me. I feel like it is very immature and right now I don’t even want to see him if that’s how it is gonna be.
I don’t know if I am being too harsh or what would you think/do?
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Don't blame him at all. Nothing kills interests than text messages.
Has nothing to do with texting. I just think she's getting in over her head being a single mother. it rarely works
It is him texting a lot back and forth? So I don’t understand what you mean.
I have been going out with him for 1 month +. He always texts me twice a day and reply straight away. We had plans yesterday. I had to reschedule. I asked him about a time and place for today. He didn’t reply for 24 h (first time) now so i don’t know if we are on or off.
This is why I dont want to date single mothers. Too much drama
Where is the drama? I asked to reschedule a date (no booking or anything made) from Friday to Saturday, he says it is fine, I make a suggestion where to meet and he ignores me which he has never done
You're literally complaining
Because it isn’t normal to not reply and say if we are on and off?
Give it a rest hun. Again, this is why I don't date single mothers, too much drama
It’s almost been 24 h, and if we should meet up where i suggested it is just in a couple of hours
Give it a rest hun
Like this has anything to do with being a single mother lol. Go find your yes girl.
I think the issue here is you ditched the date in favor of the kids (valid). The kid issue is something many guys can't handle. He may be realizing this.
In my past, as I've aged, the dating pool contained a lot of a single mothers. As a result, I dated a few. I knew what I was getting into from day one, though.
Text him again. If he doesn't reply, call him.