Should I have kept this to myself?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy work at the same place and we were seeing each other outside of work for about a month or two. However he’s about to leave soon and move to another state and we decided to be friends. But after that he was still reaching out and then stopped after a week later so I ended up initiating. I even went to visit him last weekend. Fast forward to today I messaged him to and later on in the convo I told him that I wished things would have worked out. He was a bit confused at first so I told him that I was talking about me and him seeing each other. Then he’s going to respond saying “oh yeah”. I just ended the convo right there because I feel like he’s no longer interested and I regret messaging him. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Did you have sex with him? That always changes the equation.

[jshm2]

Sheesh, what are you? 12?

He kept you as a friend and colleague and you just went and made things awkward. As well as made yourself look desperate.

[strateguy632]

you were right both times, to reveal your feelings so he "could" too. if he did not then now you know. do? move on, no shame, you made the "best moves".

[Vikkrram]

Actually i did the same and got rejected and now i am feeling the same...

[Anonymous]

Did you had sex with him?

[Asker]

No I didn’t