I rejected this guy multiple times because I had a boyfriend. But now, that I broke up, he has started dating another woman. Should I tell him that I want him? I feel so bad because he is much better than my ex but back then I didn't want to rush a break up nor cheat on him, because I felt that this would make the new guy have trust issues with me (I 've been cheated on in the past and I know how it feels)
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If he marries the girl he is dating now, then assume that they were meant to be and tis was just a personal example of right person/wrong time for you. If he doesn't marry her, they will break up, and then you can pursue him, but . . . don't be the one who breaks up the relationship he currently has. That would put you in a very unfavorable light.
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Wait it out. If he stops dating the woman and you’re still available then for sure tell him your feelings. But don’t ruin his opportunity at love because you regret not choosing him in the past. It’s just very selfish and unfair to what he’s developing. Don’t step on her toes to try and get what you want, have the respect you’d want another woman to have for you.
Depends if you feel you love him? If yes, then tell him
You know what it feels like to be cheated on. So now you want to put that guy in a situation where he could cheat? Just no shame at all. Wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend ffs.
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U can but it will just be seen as playing games
smh.. no. Block him
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