Do you guys sometimes meet girls that makes you want to be the best version of yourself? And how does it end if you do?

[Solstraale]

[ohsheeT]

It's every girl I meet

This my though on it maybe look at it this way.
Let pretend that within its all ready been coded with in our DNA THE BEST OF EVERYTHING. AND THE WORSE OF EVERYTHING

When we meet people and everything is good brand new refreshing and we all ways think I love this person because they make me feel this way.

But in reality all they're doing is being themselves and being there with us and just like opening up doors for us but we are the only person on the inside that can make us feel anything so if we want to be our best that's what we're going to do if they make us happy that's what we're going to do because we're going to make ourselves so happy because we're the only person that can do that I think people come into our lives and they allow us to be ourselves instead of the rut that we put ourselves in sometimes and when we can be ourselves everything gets better everything is happier we allow ourselves to be Who We Are and become the best because that's who we're meant to be anyway if you think about it life has two choices with everything

Good bad right wrong yes no hello goodbye positive negative God devil love hate there's always just two choices and we make it the choice in how we're going to feel if we're down and out we're going to be down now look at people's questions on here they're going through something and watch the way they word it listen to their words now

Where find the question was the person just got in a relationship in a super happy because they do this and they do that and they're just glowing I think it's a choice I think it's already inside of us and people come into our lives and open up those doors we do the same thing when we answer questions on here there's questions and make us happy that we were able to help our kind of bummed out because that person was bummed out life is an experience and for me I want to experience everything the best and I like gaining knowledge but I always try to be happy whether somebody's in my life or not I believe that yes everybody brings out the best of everybody when they meet each other because it's a good moment it's a happy moment if you're going through something crappy then that person is going to bring on crappiness into your life LOL you know what I mean but anyway I don't know if I answered the question or not but that's the way I see it

[Billlewis]

I think that's the whole point of trying to date a beautiful woman, because you know she's going to make you work your ass off to try to make her happy, and as every guy should know, there is only one reason for a guy's existence -- to please the female.

[DaveJord]

Yes, and for me personally not very well. Come to find out, I was the best version of myself when I stay true to me.

[OlderAndWiser]

Two months ago, I asked her to marry me and she said “yes!”

[Lionman95]

Yes I do sometimes but I never tell them. It makes me question and try to figure out what I need to do to get their interest. I normally don´t tell a woman for one because I don´t know how to tell someone without making it awkward and for two because I don´t want to think I´m in love with her while I´m not.
A meeting with such a woman for instance let to me starting to work out again because I realised that I´d have better chances in life not just with women.
For me it´s rather a way of inspiration.

[ShadezMcgee]

Only a couple have gotten that result out of me and I have been in relationships or wanted a relationship with those women on particular. If she doesn't make you want to feel like the best man you can be, something isn't right.

Currently still with the last girl who gave and still gives me that feeling.

[motownplayer2000]

Haven’t really met a female that has pushed me to be the best versions of me yet. I’m usually alway carrying them with there emotional, mental and financial baggage. This is why I don’t let what women say dictate how I interact with them. They get what they get or it’s on to the next.

[MementoMori777]

Yea the motivation is real because I do have a good side but it's hard for me to show it sometimes, I've never had a bad result from it, except maybe once

[Solstraale]

How did it end badly?

[MementoMori777]

I'm still not really sure what happened but I think someone here was using me as a cane, well many do but still, I read this person wrong completely and they ended up just completely throwing me away after they felt better about their breakup, from all kind too cold and heartless, I must have either given the wrong message by just being very kind and sympathetic or she created some stupid assumption about me that she just decided to shun me completely, not trying to sound like a butthurt prick but I don't think I'm ever going to show just one person so much heart, I blocked her and I hope the world eats her alive tbh, it would be the best natural justice lol

[NathanDavis]

I'm already a good version of myself... and it comes from within

I would be kind of immature if I "needed" to see a girl to be better

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I wouldn't date someone who doesn't make me feel that way

[Solstraale]

How come?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

My experience in dating has been that women fall into one of two categories.

And to over simplify them, they're basically women who don't think about personal development and ones who are ambitious and see us as a team which should be invested into from both sides.

Woman see the world differently than men do, their empathy makes things clear to them that are usually easy to misunderstand as a guy.

Also, it's a sign that she's confident in herself. A lot of women are too shy and unsure of themselves to tell their man what they really think or to have the nerve to say he can do better.

When we see eachother as a team working towards largely the same goals and purpose, the respect for eachother is on a whole other level. The ability to be happy together goes up, the relationship becomes closer and more meaningful.

[saint_reezy]

Im the best version of myself all the time. She can either go with the flow or ill keep it movin.

[KrakenAttackin]

@saint_reezy. Well said. She can get with the program or fuck off.

[asphaltrhymes]

I've become that already without needing a girlfriend's influence or wife's influence. 💪🏻👋🏻😁

[runnerboy]

I think it is wonderful. This world is messed up especially the politics in the US life is short and we should all be the best we can be

[Anonymous]

Yes. Guys are no different than women. We are fooled by women who put up a false front. Occasionally you meet that unicorn. But in general it doesn't work out because she eventually reveals her true self.

[bowenw]

They are usually special girls that may become SOs or good friends.

[Rangers]

Yes, but it ends the same for all men, they get betrayed, realize nobody in their life cares for them, and become the worst version of themselves

[Iron_Man]

That’s only happened twice my former girlfriend and my current girlfriend from Europe

[Evan64]

I can't say I've ever felt this way about anyone in particular.

[Sparkie460]

I try every day to be the best person I can. I don't do it to impress anyone, I do it for myself

[Anonymous]

Yes of course... but they're extremely rare and actually they've gotten rarer the older I get. When I was 11, rhe first pretty girl I met made me wanna be the best version of myself. It takes a lot more than being pretty now.

[Opinion Owner]

She was the fist pretty girl cus it was around the time I hit puberty. Before then I didn't really care about female beauty.

[OddBeMe]

We say that to your face, ut secretly just want to waste away playing video games.

[KrakenAttackin]

Not for a very long time. Most modern women make me want to puke.

[KrakenAttackin]

... or play Russian Roulette.