Girls, could you date a man, who doesn't seem to have much confidence?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I have before

I can't always tell, if a guy has confidence or not

Yes, lacking confidence isn't a knock on their character to me

No

[Screenwriter]

Confidence comes from self esteem and existential strength. You need both to wend your way through life successfully.

[asphaltrhymes]

Hopefully they would, I'm not a confident man, but at least I'm not intimidating.
But I wouldn't want to date a woman who dictates me, yikes, I'd rather stay single and will 😬😬😁😬

[asphaltrhymes]

Gratefully I'm not a complete push over either. 😄

[Anonymous]

They won't. They're hypocrites. Most women are insecure themselves but demand a man be a pillar of confidence.

[Sunssong]

Most people are like that. It's called insanity.

[asphaltrhymes]

I guess all humans are flawed 😬

[Yannishka]

I would on the condition that he doesn't cry about it.

[Babygirl_S]

I would if he doesn't get irritable because of it.

[asphaltrhymes]

Are self-criticising jokes okay if he likes to joke about his flaws, clumsy ways? Always jovial way? 😊😋

[Babygirl_S]

@asphaltrhymes sure but I may not find them funny

[Asker]

@asphaltrhymes I feel like, as long as the guy doesn't joke too much, it shouldn't be a big deal.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I enjoy a challenge.

[poetic_pisces]

It's alright as long as he is working on it

[Anonymous]

yes and i can help him to be confident.