Can a first kiss be a decisive factor in determining whether a flirtatious connection progresses or fades away?

[Anonymous]

Well I have been seeing a very nice girl for a while. Recently, after we had a nice dinner, I dropped her off at her house and I wanted to end the night with a nice kiss, but she ended the kiss suddenly and told me that I tasted blood in my mouth. I had completely forgotten that I had my tooth extracted the day before and didn't realize that it was bleeding. Do you think this failed first kiss could mean the end of a relationship that never started? We talked a few times after that day but I couldn't really understand what she was thinking.

[Pinay_ako]

Not necessarily. I had a first kiss with one guy and he literally took my breath away! One of the best kisses I ever had! But he became too attached afterwards after that date, I got creeped out. He was suffocating me with his presence by showing up everywhere at my classes and calling me too early in the morning for breakfast. So yea give me a break. As for you, call her up, and ask to see her again and apologize for the mishap. If she can give you another chance to make it better. If she says no, then move on. If yes, good for you!

[shades777]

You definitely can learn a lot through a kiss

[WhitneySnow]

That can really turn a person off. By contrast, an amazing first kiss can really turn a person on and make them fall for you.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I like the whole honesty strategy if you want her. Tell her you are embarrassed and all that and they you really enjoy spending time with her and whatnot and all this stuff you told us. And tell her you plan to make it up to her -- gotta have some confidence in there too. If it doesn't work, oh well.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

* and that you really enjoy spending time with her and whatnot [...]

[BungusHighFivePizza]

There's a time when really dig effiminate shit. It's rare but I think this is the moment when you talk about your feelings and shit super honestly. But always you have to remind her that you're not a pussy. But just a little bit of that feeling shit is good here in my opinion.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

* when women

[DaveJord]

First kisses are important, no doubt. Thats gross my man. I wish you the best.

[TacosRAwesome]

Yeah it's possible. Try asking her for a second date since the kiss failed due to external factors not lack of chemistry.

[art84]

I think it depends how the first kiss is handled like if it came as a surprise as you weren't ready for it.

[cocobellass]

That's horrific, I could never kiss u again if that happened to me, I hate blood so much