Is the first kiss a big deal?

So I am 17 and never been kissed. I went out with a guy and hoped it might be with him. But it wasn't.

But I thought it was for the best, maybe I'll get a better guy.

But I am tired of saying I'm virgin lips and being 17.

Im gonna go out with this guy soon, and I think, if he tries to kiss me do I let him? Or it can be seen wrong to do it on the first date? Will it hurt if my first kiss wasn't with someone THAT special, but just with an attractive guy who asked me out? If I date another guy later will he see me as less is I already had my first kiss? Does it matter who I got it with? Or should I just go for it and later can laugh about it if it was a bad kiss?

Is the first kiss a big deal?
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