Why is tinder full of guys that just want to hook up?

Question

How is any one supposed to meet someone?

SocratesGhost · Accepted Answer

Highly attractive men can sleep with whomever they want so they tend to do just that. Any guy who does not qualify as one of these rarely gets a match on tinder since it is mostly based on appearances. Due to this, most men who are not studs tend to leave the app.
My advice for if you want to find a guy that is more mature, get off the app, find a cute guy somewhere in the real world, chat him up, ask him out. You may occasionally get rejected but eventually you will find someone special. Best of luck!

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

Because women put out now and they don't have any morals or discretion and men are horny and many are just taking advantage of the sexual revolution and the hook up culture that now exists.

If you want a relationship you'll have more luck meeting men face to face, one on one then you will on dating apps.

Most dating apps is for sexually loose people who sleep around.

desidoll · Accepted Answer

I blame it on women themselves. Imagine if every single woman they try to lay reject them, they would stop and leave. Truth is there are just as many promiscuous women out there. I know you are not one of them, but you are obviously affected by these women lifestyle that makes it harder to find a guy with good intention.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

I thought that was what tinder was all about? Match. com or Bumble would be more for serious dating in my opinion.

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't use Tinder but my understanding is that its purpose is to hookup, nothing more.

Yumix · Answer

Because tinder is full of women who want the same. Many might not be as straight forward as guys, but there are plenty who are open to the idea of something more casual.

Tinder has had a reputation as hookup app for many years. So many users are ok with it else they wouldn't have signed up.

If you want something more serious and don't want to deal with people only looking for fun then use another app that has less of a casual sex reputation. E. g. try bumble

JCT666 · Answer

Well that's what the app is also for. There are just as many women looking for hookups as well.

If it's troubling you, maybe explicitly state in your bio that you're only looking for something serious.

YourExLover69 · Answer

I have never used tinder. Also it doesn't work in my area I guess. If I want to meet a girl for serious relationship I'd use another platform for that. I think this website is better for finding a girl instead of weird tinder 😁

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I thought the whole entire point of that app is just to hook up. Maybe it's not those guys that are going there with the wrong idea? Maybe, just a little bit maybe?

MementoMori777 · Answer

Not just guys but women as well, tbh a lot of these types of sites are, dating apps are just hookup sites nowadays

DJaQueef · Answer

There are some who just want to pull an upper decker or reverse kanga followed up with a Cleveland steamer or warm Carl just for good measure.

inhua · Answer

tinder is literally a hookup site dating apps are heavily looks based and this is perfect for people to hookup

HighValue · Answer

I thought that was the main point of that app in the first place. If you want something serious, try eharmony.

mommymommymommy · Answer

lol, cause it's tinder. dating apps are scams, and are usually just for finding sex. go out. meet people, in real life

Jazzy54 · Answer

I think that’s Tinder’s objective, “casual relationships” (aka hookups).

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Because tinder is a hookup app, its why I don't use it.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

It's Tinder. It's for hookups. If you want something different use a different site

lorenzomichael · Answer

Better question would be, why is it that most people that are on that site are are slutty girls looking for Dick? There's your answer.

runnerboy · Answer

That is what Tinder is mostly about... guys (and to some extent girls) that want to get laid

Anonymous · Answer

of course dating apps IS the que for hook ups. Get in that line if that's what you want. You meet quality men in other ways like real life.

Jackj · Answer

Because it is also full of girls who have half nude photos, drugs and party picture as profile pictures and even write in their bio "just wanner have fun" 🤷‍♂️

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

because imagine, that was the intention tinder was invented for

Kelly6 · Answer

Because every guy needs to empty their cum. 🤣🤣

DextroShade · Answer

Hooking up is the purpose of the app. Try meeting men IRL.

dudeinohio · Answer

Tinder is traditionally a hookup site. People who want relationships don't go there.

Anonymous · Answer

Because it does its job People aren't supposed to meet up, part of the elites population control so I've heard

Chthou95 · Answer

The lack of self awareness from women is entertaining

Anonymous · Answer

Because it's full of Girls that ignore 80% of Guys.

Quackthulu2 · Answer

What did you think tinder was?

LazerBean · Answer

Because that's the whole point of tinder.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Isn't that what it's for?

Pterodon · Answer

Because it’s a hookup site

shades777 · Answer

Because... its Tinder! smh

In_Trance · Answer

because it's a hookup app

Anonymous · Answer

Because it's tinder. Duh!

Anonymous · Answer

Tinder Mostly been one night stand And hook ups

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