How do I bring a guy home when I live with my mother?

[Anonymous]

I'm 20 and I can't move out yet (not enough money). I know we could just go somewhere else but just in case? I feel like I don't even care if my mom knows but I don't want the guy to meet my mother lmao. Her room is literally right next to mine too and she's *always* home because she doesn't have any friends

[ohsheeT]

Well first of all you have to be honest with yourself are you asking this question because you're just looking for a hookup and if you're not looking for a hookup then you should be asking yourself why isn't your boyfriend taking charge why aren't you going to his house if he's in the same predicament as you and it is true love then how come you guys are not making a plan to get a house together I mean there's all different types of questions you should be asking

So first of all you have to respect your mom whether she's right or wrong she wants you to respect yourself depending on the relationship you have with her she's not going to mind a boy coming over and going into your room as long as she has that trust within you knowing that you know the difference between right and wrong are knowing that you know the difference and you're smart enough that you're not going to get pregnant no matter what you do you have to put yourself in your mom's shoes and understand the reasoning behind it

[RavVid]

I think talk to your mother about it. First ask if she would mind you bringing guys back.

Then suggest it wouldn't be very romantic if she met them before you had sex with them.

If she keeps her door shut it should be OK.

[Anonymous]

Do what I did when I was in your own shoes. Pay for a motel room. Or maybe he has a friend he can ask to use his place. I feel ya.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks. x

[MzAsh]

If you want to do adult things then you have to earn it. Get your act together and move out. Don’t be a kid trying to play house.

[Billlewis]

Do you have a garage or basement you can take him to? I assume that your mom goes to sleep at some point, so maybe if you're quiet, you can have sex with him in your bedroom.

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much for the point. Does your mom work during the day? Maybe if you and your boyfriend have the same day off, you can spend some quality time together that way.

[Adam1978]

You don't unless he is a boyfriend and you are ready to introduce him to the family.

[glennos89]

Rent a hotel/motel room or just ignore the fact that your mother is going to hear you guys are night 😂🤷‍♂️

[lorenzomichael]

Tell your mom he's gay. Then by the time he leaves tell your mom " guess what I convinced him to change so he's no longer gay".

[BadApple69]

You will make the boy very uncomfortable. Get a room. It'll be so much more fun.

[Anonymous]

You are asking about bringing a guy home to have sex?

[MackBoy]

Dress your boyfriend like a girl and take him inside your room.

[boggboss]

You can't if u don't want them to meet eachother

[DextroShade]

Doesn't he have his own place?

[Anonymous]

Go to his place.

[Wise4myage]

Be very quiet.

[shades777]

time to grow up

[OddBeMe]

Move out.