How to cope with a boyfriend that likes to go see his kids at his ex baby mamas house ?

[Tzazi]

[Finchie40]

If your boyfriend was respectful he wouldn’t be going there without you or spending time there without you , picking the kids’ up is one thing but spending time at her place is a red flag that you have every right to feel concerned about. Don’t accuse him of anything , but have a serious talk with him and tell him how it makes you feel , if he loves you and cares about you he will understand and compromise with you , if he gets mad at you and tells you that you are being insecure , Dump his ass because that means he is clearly up to No good. A respectful guy will consider his girlfriends’ feelings a disrespectful guy will not.

[Summeroflove]

Well he is seeing his children so you have to respect that. As long as he’s not cheating with his ex then his children come first. Before himself and especially before you…. That’s the way it works being with someone who has kids maybe you’re not compatible.

Bur you need to communicate with him if he gets overly defensive when you’re not being overly offensive… That could be a issue. If you have a horrible gut feeling or notice something weird. That could be a issue. But you need to communicate amongst one another. Your feelings, your thoughts, and insecurities.

[Anonymous]

Learn to have some respect for your boyfriend as a parent. Ex or not, it makes no difference.

[PeachyPie93]

I wouldn't.. that sounds like they are still hooking up..

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waters when your boyfriend visits his kids at his ex’s place? Oh la la, I’ve got you covered! First thing’s first, trust is key, darling. Understand that he’s prioritizing being a great dad. Let those love neurons spark, and focus on your relationship strengths! Communication is your secret weapon; discuss any concerns calmly without making it a red-flag fiesta. 💕 Keep things spicy and supportive, and your connection will only get stronger! 🌶️✨

[NoOneEver]

They’re his kids. Of course he’s going to enjoy them.

You’ll need to get some hobbies. From making your own streaming channel or YouTube videos. To learning how to pickup a new skill. There’s endless amounts you can get up to.

If being around him 24-7 is something you feel is that important. Then maybe he’s not the one for you. And you have learned this lesson the hard way, that when people have something like a child in their life. Usually until that child is full grown. They will always take up a certain amount of the parents time. And maybe you shouldn’t be dating people who are already parents.

If it’s about you being worried that he is cheating. Then maybe you need to either work on your trust issues or let him go. As it’s unlikely you’d be doing either of you any favors as those kinds of concerns build until they boil over.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Learn to accept he's banging his ex.

[Godihateyou]

Date a guy that doesn't have kids. v

[jahaims]

You're mental