Hello, I am in a very interesting situation. We are in Italy as a group of teachers of 7. In a way they seemed no to like me at all. I felt the coldness and stayed away from the group. The issue that bothers me most is the girl I am in love or I like also doesn't like me. I had texted her before we went abroad. I don't know if she knows my feelings. Everything started when we or I cathed her eyes. The world seemed to stop at that moment. It's funny that I found myself looking at her pictures and I think it would be a suicide if I tell her about my feelings. What would you do if you were me? Thank you...
Short answer: No.
Here’s why, in my opinion. Girls tend to notice when a guy is interested in them, if she didn’t, one of her friends did notice, so I bet she is aware of your feelings for her.
I think she would have changed her attitude towards if she was interested.
However, if you still want to give it a shot, I suggest you prepare yourself emotionally for when/if she rejects you.
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Yes, but you also need to be Prepared for her Not to feel the same way. Telling her eliminates making assumptions or wonder if!
No. You gave no indication that she even remotely feels the same. If you must do something then ask her out instead ot the theatrics of confessing love for someone you barley know. It will creep her out. If its a no then you got your answer without making her feel uncofortable.
You texted her then what she did sir did she replied you?
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No. If the opportunity arises ask her out. If she says no, move on. If she says yes, then you can learn if the feelings have any basis.
You have not learned how to build attraction or they don't find you attractive. Nothing will make a difference until you figure out this step.
You have a lot of work to do before you tell her about anything
No. Based on you description I think it'd be pointless. Based on your description it isn't mutual. Life isn't a romcom. She isn't going to do a 180 because you think you have feelings for her.
first talk about other stuff, you are right not to reveal it first.
No bullshit her. Of course tell her how your feeling her, if you don't you'll regret it. And cuz you might be surprised how she feels about you.
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