Should I tell her my feelings?

[Anonymous]

I’m a 19 years old, very shy and average looking guy. She’s 18, gorgeous, smart, kind, slightly shy and a lot nervous sometimes. I have a crush on her; I just can’t take her out

of my mind, every time I’m close to her I feel better no mater what.

We’re friends, yesterday, I went to her birthday party, we hanged out for a while, when I was saying goodbye to her I almost kissed her ^.^

Anyway, my question his – Should I tell her my feelings?

I’m afraid that I’ll screw up our friendship which I really care a lot… My best friend tells me that I should tell her everything, but I’m not sure at all…

Also I have another question – Since she’s a lot nervous, should I tell her before the final exams or after? I mean, after the final exams I’m not sure if I’ll be able to see her for a while(month’s maybe.), but at the same time I’m worried to screw her grades if I tell her before the exams…

Sorry for my awful grammar, thanks for you’re time :)

[Endymion]

Man, do yourself a big favor and tell this girl. Tell her as soon as possible. I understand that she's your friend, and that you don't want to lose her in that capacity, but friends do make the best lovers. There's no awkward getting-to-know-each other phase (like on a first date and people are on their best behavior), there's just a shift in comfort zones, you obviously already get along fine. I'm assuming she's single. How would you like to see her in the arms of another man? When you finally get to the point of telling her, and the shyness kicks in, just imagine that, her with someone else, that oughta give you the gumption to spill your feelings to her. If you're going to wait until after exams, then make a plan of it. Ask her out to dinner to celebrate the end of exams. Whatever you do, don't put it off until after the summer. If she is nervous, the summer will give her time to get her feelings together, and believe me, it's YOU she'll think about all summer. And whatever you do, do this face-to-face. This isn't something you do in email or text messages. Best of luck.

[Vivian222222]

May I ask you a question if you don't mind?

[kaching]

wait till after finals. in fact, I think you should wait until you no longer think of yourself as average. maybe you are just trying to be humble while talking to a bunch of people online who you don't know and are afraid of coming across as an ass but seriously. its great that you find so many qualities in her, you should find some in yourself before approaching her. please don't take this as a "wait, wait, wait" just reassure yourself that you ARE bringing something valuable (that would be yourself in case you were wondering) to the table when you tell her how you feel.

[xlibertine]

I'm sure that since you're friends she's going to understand how you feel. If not then it's not worth it. I would tell her though.

[sammyangel9991]

tell her right after exams are over. if you guys almost kissed, she is totally into you. just let her know.

[ALWAYSclassy]

Go for it tell her! She seems like a sweet girl, I doubt it would make things awkward at all

[Rafael151]

I don't think you'll screw with her grades by telling her, if she's smart like you say. The risk of not telling her is she may be asked out by someone, and if she thinks you're not interested, she may accept. It depends on where you want this to go. Would you rather be just a friend for the rest of whatever and know she's got another guy?

[Virtuales]

Man tell her and stop thinking about it that much. just do something about it

and in my opinion it doesn't have to screw up ur friendship

i mean even if you didn't tell her about ur feelings you wouldn't have abnormal friends relation ship since you have these feelings for he. so tell her man