Should you tell your Ex if you still have feelings for them?

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lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

your Wowgirl graphics are like the Lady GAGA of graphics on GAG! :) say that 3 times fast... lol

I'd talk to someone else, or write them down in a private place.
I think I'd leave the dead horse where it lies so to speak unless you want to ressurect it. But you know why you shouldn't ressurect it because will have the same results again, so I wouldn't!

This whole "talking to X" think is a big Q to me right now. Me not know right answer... I think Wow girl has wisdom , what is the answer wowgirl?

worldscolide · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't. But that's because I am genuinely afraid of my ex..

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

NEVER! MOVE ON! EX is an EX for a reason. Leave them in the past. Otherwise, your desperate and insecure with no self-esteem whatsoever. If you have feelings for your ex, you would have stayed with the ex. And if the ex broke it off with you, why would you want them back!

StingRayxoxo · Accepted Answer

If both of you are single and feelings still exist, absolutely. There are other factors that would hinder it, such as maybe someone cheated or there was abuse, etc and maybe they shouldn't get back together.

Desconhecida · Answer

No, simply because it's normal to take some time to feel normal... these feelings are just starting to fade but they won't leave you.. you have a history with your ex and not only bad memories of the end but great ones from the start...
Give yourself some time to adjust to this new reality, and focus on the feelings you have about yourself

coachTanthony · Answer

If the ex is single and you would like to get back together with them I guess you could. You telling them just to tell them makes no sense though.

shimmeryns · Answer

I don't think that's a good idea unless if you want to work things out with him.. But then think of why it did not work out, would it be different this time around?

Pinay_ako · Answer

No. An ex belongs in the past. Leave them there.

VIVANT · Answer

If we broke up bc I was diagnosed with cancer and I didn’t want to be in a relationship while going through with chekocahd in now in remission- sure!

If we broke up bc I was debt on a mission to iuterwisce sbd wouidbt he back for two years - sure!

If we broke up bc he had to move overseas for work and neither of us wanted a long distance rejationship, and my work had stationed he bear where he currently lives- sure!

If we broke up bc I was suffering OTSD and I was not in a space to handle a person in my life Bjt in now doing well- sure!

If there was a misunderstanding and I loved him but lies and said I didn’t care for him and I felt bad and wanted to clear thnhgs up- sure!

If it was due to extenuating circumstances or circumstances due to being an inexperienced butt head, and we both still have feelings for each other- sure!

If we broke up bc he is a narcissistic controlling piece of poop - nope!

If we broke up bc I really headed up and I do not deserve a second chance- nope!

I do not think the platitude” they are an ex for a reason” is at all useful. There are reasons for everythibg in life and with many things we fail, we try again. I think it really friends on WHAT the reason IS and how much you still care and how much effort you want to put in. Yes things might not work but things might not work with any one.

Really depends and often it feels really good to have a second chance esp when you really wanted to get it right the first time. To be breaking up isn’t the thing I regret..., it’s knowing I didn’t / couldn’t try.

nonratracereality · Answer

That is unnecessary because you will always have feelings regardless of the outcome or reason for the break.

Ellie-V · Answer

It’s risky business but hey, you’ve got nothing to lose😂 Personally I’d never do any dumb shit like that because an ex is an ex. There are no feelings afterwards.

EclipseoftheHeart · Answer

If you have feeling for someone why break up? And if he broke up with you it was for a reason so why bother?

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

If you're still trying to fuck... but they should be an ex for a reason though right? Move the fuck on and start trying to fuck someone else already.

TonyMetal86 · Answer

Why bother telling someone your feelings if they already doesn't care about you 😏

PrincessGrail · Answer

Maybe. Really depends.

DazedElite · Answer

I would give anything to have her listen to the way I feel but like she said whats done is done...

indecisivesomethin · Answer

I think you should. Not with the intentions of trying to get back together with them, but for closure in your part. Let them know how you feel so you can move on.

NineBreaker · Answer

No, don't; unless you want to get back together, and you're willing to risk dealing with rejection.

Factshurt90 · Answer

depends on why you all broke up.. In most cases no.

Finchie40 · Answer

No , how would your current boyfriend feel about that , so wrong

ZeussLightningBolt · Answer

Yeah, I think you should, unless you're dating someone currently

janna_jcb · Answer

What have you got to lose? Oh but only tell your ex when the relationship ended on good terms, because if it ended on bad terms this might make it worse

DiegoO · Answer

If you know any attempt to begging a romantic relationship with your ex is a dead end, it doesn't make sense.

valualty · Answer

Some things are better left unsaid. Same way when you eat beans or boild eggs, be sure to hold the fart until you're alone 😂

Lance1965 · Answer

Nah. Even if you do have feelings you should just let it go.

hindril · Answer

I guess. My ex's are fucking crazy. I don't ever want to talk to them again.

Gedaria · Answer

Why not it could help if you wanted to get back together !!!

RudeBoy718 · Answer

Move forward woman have habit of rehashing old lovers instead of meeting new people.

ChocolateMarie2001 · Answer

No cause I be doing everything possible to put them out of my life.

michaelbernad001 · Answer

Before telling him /her. Think of the situation why they became your ex.

JojoSiwasBiggestFan · Answer

Yes but I have too much pride to do such a thing.

Gothd011 · Answer

God no, he might come back...-_-

Izumiblu · Answer

I don't know. What’s the point of doing it?

Giggletr0n · Answer

No never... bad idea!

boochie0 · Answer

I mean yeah ! Wouldn’t you want to be honest?

Slim57 · Answer

Doesn't matter what's done is done

themomo84 · Answer

No, move on

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Dear me, noooo...

DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999 · Answer

Nope its over

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