I have gut feeling that won't go away about a girl I've been dating for a few months.
It started on the first date.. we hit it off pretty quickly and it was a really good date but when i wanted to go home she was trying to call guys to pick her up (she was pretty drunk) and i could see she texts a lot of guys.
Next day i told her i wasn't really feeling that and she told me this isn't how she usually acts etc and nothing happend between her and someone else. So i gave her another chance.
Fast forward 2 months
I still dont completely trust her.
I've never had this with someone before that im so suspicious that i constantly think they are still busy with other guys. It starts to really bother me to be this way.
For example;
We bought some bottles of booze and after pouring a few drinks i put them in the refrigerator however, the next weekend i was there the bottles were gone and nowhere to be find.
Which i find odd since she always texts me early in the evening that she's going to bed.
I also notice that she always puts her phone screen down or is texting when im not close to her. While she doesn't text me often when we dont see eachother (i mostly start the convo).
she also lied to me about something small even when i confronted her about it, that doesn't sit right with me.
At the same time we have talked about it and she tells me that im the only one she is interested in and told her parents about me. We see eachother often etc.. but somewhere i dont feel like she's really that into me (i almost always initiate physical contact, sex etc). We do have a lot of good moments aswell.
I'm used that if a girl likes me she texts me often, really shows she likes me etc.
However she does say we are heading to something serious.
Sorry for the long text i even tried to keep it short.
Tldr: should i trust my gut feeling or is my anxiety messing with my mind about a girl still messing with other guys
