My boyfriend asks for nudes sometimes how to say no without making him feel bad (we are in a ldr)?

[Someone_101]

[DaveJord]

Just tell you don't do that and that he needs to respect that boundary and stop asking. When people refuse to respect other people's boundaries it seldom works out, but it is your responsibility to set your own boundaries. So, if you have not done that then it's your fault not his.

[SnowedIn]

Say no. That's his problem. And if he has an issue with no, vote him off your island -- it means he won't accept no in other areas.

The much larger issue is the LDR.

[Agape93]

Just say no. You're not responsible for how he handles a simple no.

[WindAtMyBack]

He is not entitled to nudes. Just say no. If he can't accept that then it's his problem. There is no need for a long drawn out explanation.

[Gent207-2]

If he doesn't respect your boundaries he DOES NOT love you. If he truly loves you he will respect your boundaries and you

[lorenzomichael]

Tell him straight up FUCK NO. I'm not that kinda girl that I just take nude selfies and pass them out to guys that I'm with. And if he doesn't like what you said, tell him to go fuck herself. Unless your a dirty girl then don't forget to smile.😁

[qwert1234]

Tell him you are uncomfortable and don't offer any promises that you will do it in the future - unless you will.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If your boyfriend asks for nudes send him nudes of someone else.

[RavVid]

I think most guys will respect female purity so I suggest that path.

[FunkyMonkee]

Send him nudes of other chicks! How's he ever gonna now they aren't you?

[bingbongbangbung]

he might want the nudes to sell them online or use as revenge porn