Is it normal that my boyfriend never asks for nudes?

Question

Not even when we didn’t see each other for almost a month he has never asked for nudes. Never in my life has he asked me for a nude. He tells me that it’s just awkward to him lol.

worldscolide · Accepted Answer

I never asked my wife for nudes.. Two reasons, One i see it as disrespectful, and two, I work in IT.. Specifically cyber security. Do you have any idea how dangerous that is? No way in hell am i risking my wife's nudes getting hacked or put out there.. Nope.. Never..

Belgie · Accepted Answer

It's normal. I never asked any girl for nudes because I know break ups happen and girls can be afraid of nudes leaking, phones can be lost or stolen, etc.. I care about a girls peace of mind now and in the future when maybe things won't be good between us.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

I find that a little strange. If my man never asked for nudes then I'd assume he was jerking it to porn. Which is fine and all but I like it when he jerks it to me too

kyleelyn199723 · Accepted Answer

As long as he enjoys your body in person, I don’t see an issue with this. A long time ago before iPhones and social media, men did not ask for nudes like they do now

DaveJord · Answer

Yeah, its normal. Honestly I think it a lot more sexy that she sends them without out me asking. It more meaningful and sensual that way. If your concerned about it send him one and see how he response.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, some guys don't care about that, or won't ask (especially when all we hear is how much women HATE them). But I've never asked and wouldn't, not even with a girlfriend. Now, if she were to randomly send me one, would I complain? Not at all! lol But I'd never ask. It would have to be her 100% because she wanted to.

nawtee_me · Answer

If you have not seen him in a long time do you ask for nudes from him?

NathanDavis · Answer

I never ever asked for any of that either, to none of my ex-girlfriends... didn't even consider it and never came across my mind to wonder if that was normal or not... lol

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

It can be if he is worried how you'll take it, maybe you should ask him if he would like some, see what he says about it. Has he asked before or just never ever?

spartan55 · Answer

And you'd be griping if he asked for nudes too... yawn.

Leonharted · Answer

I have never once asked for nudes, because I know what that entails. Your text messages are not private unless you're using Signal.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I think it's normal, I dated a girl for a few and never asked her for nudes

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Why is that weird he probably doesn't have no use for it considering he probably fuck you constantly. And if neither of you two didn't had sex, why is your relationship is being tested over something trivial like nude pictures?

MelonSoda · Answer

I'm not really seeing the issue here. Maybe he just likes you for more than your body.

Msputiton · Answer

I think it's normal for him. We all will act differently. As long as he ain't doin you dirty and makes ya happy i wouldn't worry bout it, cuhh

EyeAmNiceGirl · Answer

Truth is that most guys don't ask for nudes. And it's stupid to do it if he asks. And it's even stupid to keep dating him if he asks.

JasM0 · Answer

It’s not abnormal, just not common to popular culture. At least you know that your pics won’t leak to the dark web. Cheers!

Pyrofox · Answer

I wouldn't be surprised if he responds why do I need a picture when I have the real thing. And just bear hugs you XD.

Lionman95 · Answer

Do you have a problem with that? Because that sounds reasonable to me.

AviatorTom · Answer

Perfectly normal. Rather than look at pictures, he'd rather have you nude in person. I think most guys are like that.

Deku2009 · Answer

No , most guys don’t usually ask nudes in order to not scare the girl.

UsernameXLTX · Answer

Not asking for nudes is more normal than asking for nudes.

HighValue · Answer

It's normal. I have never asked anyone for nude pictures either.

Jintendo18 · Answer

He’s doing you a favor. You don’t want to have to deal with revenge porn in case things don’t work out.

jobego · Answer

maybe he likes it in person more and it's smart to not send nudes over texts

Wester1967 · Answer

I don't know what his issue is. If you feel the need to send nudes you can PM me

Surely · Answer

Just remember that once those pictures are out there. They are there forever. What would he do with them if the two of you were to part ways.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes it is, and why not? A month would be too soon to be sending him nudes anyway. If its been 2 years, than he has no interests in you sexually.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Yes. Why would he if he can literally see you naked in person?

gangster123 · Answer

It is absolutely okay as long as the bonding is there between you..

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, it's normal. He gets to f*** you every week! LOL. Smh

awkward_author · Answer

He probably prefers to see your nude body in person.

jasco · Answer

Some guys just don't want to, honestly thats a good thing

Zygum · Answer

As he had seen you naked and all your body parts are saved in his mind, so he does not consider your nudes again

Gb-Fan · Answer

Of course it is. That’s respectful. Have you ever mentioned you want to go down that road with him.

Anonymous · Answer

it means he respects you. i never once asked my significant other for nudes even though i still jerk off to their pics

fireforeffect · Answer

I never asked any of my girl friends for nude photos.

DevinAM · Answer

I don't think I've ever asked either, at least not unless I was asked for one first.

Anonymous · Answer

Neither of you have exchanged nudes with each other?

Anonymous · Answer

you are tense because your boyfriend like you for who you are and not because he wants to see your boobs and pussy?

Mkhaan113 · Answer

He is normal for not wanting your nudes

GabiBB · Answer

Yes, it is totally normal.

Anonymous · Answer

when I was in my teens  I didn't start doing the whole nude thing until  months later

exitseven · Answer

I would not ask for nudes either.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

It's less normal than it should be.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I’ve never asked anyone for nudes, dating or not.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Normal? You should be thankful!

LegendaryIcon · Answer

should NEVER ask for nudes

888theGreat · Answer

if you sleep with him , why would he need one

Waldoe · Answer

so... just send one to him random... SURPRISE

krin_m · Answer

That is quite normal in my opinion.

EaterPeter · Answer

Do you two get to have sex on regular basis?

seanscoopers · Answer

What's your actual problem is

whosnumber1 · Answer

he's respectful

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

That’s good

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