My boyfriend is asking me for nudes. What to do?

[Anonymous]

I never send anything like this to any guy before and it's a no no for me. I already told him few months back and he asked me again. We entered into long distance relationship in April 2020.

[Anonymous]

If you're not comfortable doing it, then don't. Simple as that. He should respect that much of you and the fact you don't want your naked body on display. What happens if you two break up- now he has naked pictures of you that could wind up on the internet!!!

Tell him you are not comfortable doing that- if he really likes you, the least he could do is respect you for that. If he wants to see you naked, tell him he has to come see you in person!

[Harmonyxox]

As long as you're overage and you actually want to do it, sure I guess. But if you don't, never feel like you have to. If he's a good guy, he'll respect that and care about the way it makes you feel.

[asshole_]

exactly

[spartan55]

If he asking you again after you clearly said no that is a red 🚩 flag that you can't afford to ignore.

[Asker]

Should I ignore his texts now?

[spartan55]

I think you should ask yourself what kind of "relationship" you have. Tbh, if you haven't met, you don't know the guy. I know it's convenient, but online relationships are NOT the same as real life, and it's foolish to believe they are even close to similar. That being said it seems this guy lacks respect for you. I don't understand the whole nude photo thing, I think it's pretty sad that girls are being pressured into doing this. Good for you for standing your ground. Don't change your mind! All that will do is send the message that you can be talked/guilted/pressured into anything he wants.
I would lay it down VERY clear one last time. Call him out for bringing it up AGAIN when you told him no and how that is disrespectful to you. If he leaves over this you will know what he was in it for.

[Gedaria]

If you must , send anonymous ones. Not showing face or anything that you can be identified by..

[Asker]

I already told him before that I'm not comfortable with it like few months back and he asked me again

[Gedaria]

Well you must tell him again. Find out why it's do important to him to have them...

[Hermes-Paris]

Send him some pics of a 60 year old guy naked. Tell him it's your grandfather and you look just like him.

[jkm1864]

Better be careful because some people can use that to blackmail You later on in life.

[Anonymouus_]

at least cut the face off

[Anonymouus_]

and if u have any tats dont show those in the pics

[Asker]

We've never met in real life bdw. And also I already told him that I am not comfortable with it like few months back when he asked

[Anonymous]

Send him a dick picture; and say "I thought of you when I saw this; because you're kinda being a dick. So I thought the two of you could be friends."

[Anonymous]

I don’t care long distance relationship or not. I’m not giving away my nudes willingly! Don’t be a fool pls.

[asshole_]

exactly

[bruno17707]

Nooooooooo! He might send them round and make fun of your body!!

[Pliskin55]

they will be on the internet after your breakup

so just think if it’s still worth that before sending

[Anonymous]

stand firm by your decision don't back down if it goes against your moral beliefs. never compromise on those

[asshole_]

Turn him down and break up

[Thatsamazing]

Rofl you aren't in a relationship, sis.

[reptocarl2]

Don’t do it

[Anonymous]

No means no.

[GreenGold1992]

That's a big no-no

[MagicalHero212]

Ytuo been

[Jmmmfi4]

Don't do it