Do you choose a guy or girl that you love or a guy or girl that loves you?

[Anonymous]

I would choose a guy who loves me because he'll treat me better than a guy that I love. So I choose to be with a guy that loves me

I would choose a girl who loves me because she'll treat me better than a girl that I love. So I choose to be with a girl that loves me

I would selfishly choose a girl that I love because I want whom I want and I will never compromise on my choice for anyone

I would selfishly choose a guy that I love because I want whom I want and I will never compromise on my choice for anyone

[ohsheeT]

If you look at all your scenarios each one of them has a challenge

And no matter what one you pick you have to remember 2 things

You can not make anyone in this world love you
And at any given moment that person can walk away. It's that simple and that fast

For me I understand this so the way I deal with it is in my own way I need to be honest then selfish but not

I have to live myself first I have to know who I am and be honest and when I find that person I look deep in to there eyes and I commit . And no matter what I'm in to it 100 %
If and when things happen I have 2 choices I have to be honest with me first and look at it through there eyes and I can bend with it.
Or only through my eyes and bend against it for what ever reason it may be there are things in life we can just flow with or fight.. flow we keep going forward. Fight holds us back

After so many fight with the right or wrong person one will get tired of fighting no going anywhere when that happens then there will be a change

So life starts with you in everything you do
When we first started to learn how to walk we would fall down but how we dealt with it determined our success
If you want the best relationship EVER ITS HOW you deal with it you either flow or you hold things up.

Your a river that can run forever
Or your a river that flows but little buy little you damn yourself up until there's no more flow

[EricSummer]

Oh dear, you are getting this all wrong. The trick is to choose someone who is desirable for you, but only among the people who also show some initial interest in you as well.

Then you try to get to know each other and if that goes well you can allow yourself to get attached to the other person and start loving them. Ideally, this would not go significantly faster than for the other person. We have to be a bit careful in this.

[Screenwriter]

I think both loving and being loved are the best options. Neither one nor the other is satisfactory. You want give AND take in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Will choose someone who loves me instead of someone i love. And a person should always choose that person who loves you.

[shades777]

I don't see the difference in question, at the end if the day your making a choice whether your playing an active role or passive role, a choice has been made and there is no eacaping it

[ItsZaman]

tbh many people will choose those whom with they love.
but they should choose those who love them.

[Unknown29]

I would NEVER get in a relationship if we didn’t both love each other.

[Anonymous]

I don't want girl that love me

[Anonymous]

Neither.