Who would you choose, the person you love or the one that loves you?

I’m 35, i always dream to have a little family. Become a wife and mom. My boyfriend is 40, he is a loving person but he is not ready for that because he still busy taking care of his mom (she got cancer). We are together for 3 years, I understand that i’m not his priority right now, his priority is money and mom. I asked him will he marry me someday? He said yeah, but not now. He still gets a lot of shit to do.

But i have a good friend, i know that he loves me, I asked him to stay away from me because my boyfriend doesn’t like him. And he did it, but he told me if something happens just come to him, he knows that i my dream is to have a family. He told me if something happens, he will definitely marry me just please pretend you love me.

Will you waiting for your boyfriend who not ready for marriage? Or will you married to someone who loves you and definitely will treat you well.
Who would you choose, the person you love or the one that loves you?
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