Better to ask a guy if he still wants to go out or assume he does?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy went out right before I left town for two weeks. He said he wanted to see me again once I got back. I’m going to get back in four days and don’t know if I should ask “do you still want to hang out once I’m back?” Or ask “when do you want to hang out once I’m back?” I don't know if that makes a difference at all or not lol

[Iron_Man]

Don’t say, do you still say your back let’s get together be friendly

[Asker]

Ok so say like “hey I come back tmrw so let’s hang when you’re free!”

[Iron_Man]

Yes very good. Dont say do you still that’s negative and puts doubts in peoples minds

[Asker]

Okay great thank you!

[Iron_Man]

You’re welcome

[karekaaaa]

I think just tell him that u are back and let him ask to

[Asker]

Okay so if I said something like “hey I get back tomorrow if you still wanna hang out”

[karekaaaa]

No..
I think "if you still wanna" is bad..
He may think that u are in him more than he

[Asker]

Oh ok so just say “hey I get back tomorrow btw”

[karekaaaa]

Yess or just put a story

[Asker]

Okay I’ll just tell him bc we talk often and I did tell him what day I was coming back a week ago bc he was saying he wanted me to hurry back home

[karekaaaa]

Do he like u sexualy?

[Asker]

Yes, why?

[karekaaaa]

Maybe he only like u sexualty

[Asker]

I sure hope not. I told him about my fear of being used last time we hung out and did stuff and he promised me things and has lived up to what he said.

[karekaaaa]

All of us do
He use u

[Asker]

Ok then how do I know if a guy won’t use me bc not all guys use girls clearly

[karekaaaa]

I need to know more
May u follow me?

[mommymommymommy]

If you think you should

[Asker]

If I think I should what? Assume he’s still wanting to?

[mommymommymommy]

Whatever you feel is best

[In_Trance]

Ask him

[Asker]

U mean ask if he still wants to hang?