Men have to change if they want to attract women, women dont have to change and can still find a man. Why would you disagree with this?

[Chthou95]

[Anonymous]

Simple. I'd disagree with this because there are 3.5 billion women on the planet. I don't have to attract most women. Just the right one. And any woman that wants me to contort myself into something I'm NOT has already wasted both of ourselves time. So she can keep walking. Trust me from a guy who's been around a while. A woman or a man who expects you to change for them never stops expecting you to change when they want you to. Being agreeable and willing to compromise is one thing and should be done as best you can. But THIS is not that.

[Chthou95]

Do you believe in generalities?

[Opinion Owner]

How do you mean? I think both genders have thier tendencies if that's what you mean. All women ate different. But all women have the same tendencies.

[slatyb]

Because it's simply not true. There is competition both ways. I'm sure there are women you would refuse just as there are women who would refuse you. We see posts on GAG all the time from women wondering why they can't attract a partner.

[Chthou95]

Most women will always have a group of people who will date them compared to men who have a rare few to none. And usually the women who ask have a bunch of men who would date them. They're just invisible to the women

[slatyb]

"Most women will always have a group of people who will date them compared to men who have a rare few to none." If a woman or man is willing to accept anyone of the opposite gender, they will be able to find a partner. Most people are somewhat selective. No one automatically gets their pick of the opposite sex. I dated on match. com and rejected over 90% of the women immediately. I expect you would also be uninterested in the majority of women even if they offered themselves to you.

[Chthou95]

That's you. Why do people always use themselves for everything. And yes i would reject them because most of them are full of drama and i wouldn't see a relationship lasting long. But there's plenty of other men who will take them as is. Most men (IN GENERAL) don't get that same opportunity. If men want to be successful, they have to raise their value and improve themselves in many aspects.

[LazerBean]

Because not all men have low standards. There are plenty of men who would require lower quality women to change before they would consider dating them, just as is true for women.

[Chthou95]

In general women take women the way they are. The high value men of course will have high standards for the women

[LazerBean]

I agree that in general men are easier and have lower standards than women, but there is still a large percentage of men who won't date just anybody.

[LazerBean]

Marry*

[Chthou95]

They usually won't marry women based on her character, not her physical appearance

[LazerBean]

Not all men are that stupid.

[Chthou95]

Why would that be stupid? Who wants to marry a woman based on bad characteristics?

[LazerBean]

My bad, you miswrote so I misunderstood. If men cannot attract women with good characteristics then it's obviously because those men do not have good enough characteristics themselves.

[Chthou95]

There's a lot of good men out there. They're just invisible. I live by the saying there are no guarantees in life but you should still try

[LazerBean]

I know there are a lot of good men. I see them every day, and they're doing great. Mostly married in their early 20s. They aren't invisible, they're doing better than the average hoe (and hoe wanna be) is.

[Chthou95]

I've seen a lot of things in my life too. But its still anecdotal and i dont place anything on that basis

[LazerBean]

Good luck

[Chthou95]

Cool

[Nikki1989]

Men don't have to change anything. You have been brainwashed.

[Chthou95]

Lmao if you say so 😂

[misogynistic_pig]

The woman does have to change her appearance, I would not date an ugly or fat woman. Neither with an old woman of 30 years, but in this case the age cannot be changed.

[Chthou95]

That's you man. There's men out there who take a woman the way she is. A fat woman can find a skinny guy that will take her the way she is

[slatyb]

An old woman of 30 years? Wait until you are 28. Or 38, then it would be a young woman of 30 years.

[Chthou95]

@slatyb With the help of internet, no woman is invisible. There's someone there to notice her

[nawtee_me]

Why would men have to change? Be yourself and if she doesn't like that you then she won't like any other you either...

[Chthou95]

You're an older man. That kind of shit doesn't apply in today's dating market. Men have to become to successful

[nawtee_me]

It applies only because you listen to what society tells you... You are a bot programed by others. In an old persons terms," If you were told to jump off a bridge would you?"

[Chthou95]

Im a bot yet i dont believe women and men are equal in the dating world and men have to become a someone that women notice and want to date

[RavVid]

There is more than the packaging and it is what is in the box that counts.

[Grubhub]

It’s true sadly, I’ve attracted hotter women when I dressed like I had money

[Anonymous]

Oh god...
Bruh i can't even sacrifice my 10min sleep for girls and u want me to change for this holes?

Nah i have many options

[BarryLiverstone]

What do men have to change?

[Grubhub]

My guess would be his personality and look

[BarryLiverstone]

I hope not.

[Chthou95]

there's always something men have to change. Men aren't accepted for how they are until they made the improvements or try

[BarryLiverstone]

Humans improve. Women aren’t accepted if they fail to improve

[Chthou95]

There's always a man willing to take her the way she is

[BarryLiverstone]

But will that man stay with her for a lifetime?

[Chthou95]

If he has no other options or backbone, he will

[BarryLiverstone]

Seems like many guys are going mgtow and choosing to not settle. So some will not stay if she stops improving

[Chthou95]

And some still will...