Would You Stop Dating A Guy If You Found Out He's Much Younger Than He Stated Earlier?

[anon1903]

not to be weird but that'd be kind of hot. unless he's a minor, in that case, sayonara.

[abc3643]

A long time ago, I began dating a young lady. She was my 2nd girlfriend and I was her first boyfriend. Her mother, a very good-looking divorcée, was about to turn 37 just before the girl and I met. The mother was dating a man who, he said, was 5 years younger than her. Then, she found out he lied... He was 10 years younger than her and about 5 or 6 years older than me! She did dump him for a while but they got back together and are married now for quite a long time.

[DaveJord]

I don't know, but I would not stop dating a woman I liked if she lied about her age.

[petitedollbabee]

Depends on the age difference between us. I’m 21, so aslong as they are still above 18 after telling me the truth, then it’s not a problem. However, I would only continue dating them if they had a damn good reason for lying about something unnecessary like that.

[provokeesmokee]

Yeah.

Dishonesty is gross and a complete turn off. Especially when a young guy uses it to try to "seem more mature".

The mature thing is accept where you're at, not lie to someone you want to date.

[Ms_Facesitter]

If he can lie about that already, who knows what else he'll lie about. Yes I would stop dating him.

[CoolCatMar1]

Trueee

[Apple1996]

Nah I like younger guys so it'd be fine but the lying would bother me a little

[MementoMori777]

Just spectating to see if lying about my age is beneficial

[menina]

Yes I would. That shows lack of trust and honesty. If he lied about his age, he can lie about things that are way more serious. Besides, I couldn't date someone much younger than me.

[Simslover92]

To lie about something so small like that means he's capable of lying about much bigger things so I would stop dating him.

[exitseven]

I met a girl once and she said she was 26. I knew she was older than me but I said I was 25. After we got to know each other better I told her I was really 22 and she told me she was really 28

[DizzyDesii]

I’d be a bit pissed that he lied, but I’d understand why he did because I’d often be in my head about it. He needs to be in his 20s at least

[SnowedIn]

Lied about something fundamental? And at the very beginning? Almost certainly yes stop dating them.

[magiusX26]

take out the gender component. someone lies, period, to start things is a show stopper red flag. thats an immediate "bye felicia" .

[AngelLily]

I’m 22 years old so if a guy was much older then me he would be underage which is definitely off limits.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

For sex, maybe okay. For relationship, bad idea.

[AdithyaR]

I feel icked out if the person is not my age, or at max a year younger or older. Can't go more than that

[RealMarek]

I don’t date guys, but I would consider lying to be a red flag.

[Andres77]

She used it as an opportunity for her to get the benefit of my curiosity

[Andres77]

No one lied. She just seemed closer to my age. Just realizing my assumption was off. I thought she was 19 or 20, she was 24 and already divorced. She taught me a lot

[Agape93]

Yeap. You lie to me like that and you're done.

[LazerBean]

So a liar? Of course.

[serafin]

hmm orange flag

[e232bm]

Probably because he lied

[collie22]

that happened and i'm still seeing him