The question is did i dodge one bullet or five.
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I believe i dodged 5 bullets
When I just rejected this woman who says she had 4 kids on her headline on POF, how many bullets did I dodge?
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Unknown there is no limit on how many you dodged. However it's not like they would have come all at once.
Probably none. Think about it this way. She already has 4 kids and probably isn't wanting anymore. So if you are wanting a woman that isn't baby crazy you missed your chance
I've found quite a number of women are choosing to be childfree. Don't have to put up with an automatic party of 6 to find one.
@BoopBoopBeep Child free women have a certain crazy vibe to them. No hate since kids are hard and I don't blame them but something about them is just off
@BoopBoopBeep also most single moms have free weekends from the kids so not like your gonna be dating their kids too lol
@Apple1996 No but it may mean you're only dating on weekends ;)
@BoopBoopBeep I think that's like the whole point of moms being on those websites. They literally just want someone to take them out on dates and fuck them over the weekend when they are lonely 😂
im entitled to want things to and i want kids, she has had aher kids and wants to find sucker to look after her kids with various kids. No guy in his right mind would go with her.
Another good reason to avoid and them and @BoopBoopBeep you can never have a proper relationship with a women who has kids with another man.
@Apple1996 Haha well hell... I've been answering the wrong questions then...
You are already 35 and still want your own kids? It's a little late but okay. And nah some guys are into moms
My mom was a single mom with 5 kids and my dad still got with her even tho she had all those kids. It just wasn't a issue for him. (by the way they had me on accident, they weren't planning on having any kids together)
@Apple1996 no it isn't. another thinking she can dictate to a man important life decisions, most people have kids these days in their 30s and most men will reject single mums, overwhelming majority
I'm pretty sure there is something I seen awhile ago saying single moms are 10% more likely to find love then childless women. Obviously 10%ain't much but still these moms are easily finding partners
And eh as a parent myself I think it's kind of unfair to have kids at a old age. It leaves the child with the burden of having to care for their parents/deal with their parents health issues
Single mums are staying single, im always hearing them moaning about it, they littered across POF complaining about it in their profiles.
All of the polls suggest otherwise and comments from men
I know so many single mums it is hilarious, and entire group of them remaining single
I don't notice that at all. Damn near all the moms at my kids school have kids from a previous relationship and are now remarried. Like with multiple baby daddies too. I feel like I'm the only mom I know that's maintained a stable relationship/has ONE baby daddy
by the way I didn't vote in your poll. Options were shit 😂
If you say so, but it is a fact that over two thirds of men in there 30s are with younger women and a saw a science video a short while ago showing single mums staying single mums.
Us men in our 30s don't and should not go out with them. By all means use them for sex but not date.
The moms I know are young so that could have something to do with it. Older ones might have a harder time dating
Also all the guys they with are also young. I don't chat to often with parents that are old since they are out of my own age range.
@Apple1996 that is part of the point im making.
People in their 30s that haven't settled down yet are red flags like if you've been passed up that many times there's a issue. Most healthy people will settle down in their 20s
Maybe none. You might have screwed up completely, but you do seem to be the judgmental type.
No different then women having their physical appearance preferences or not wanting to be with guys with a disability. Why should i bring up a load of other peoples kids where i will always be undermined by the fact that im not their father by both my partner and their fathers, and what if i want kids, she is most likely not going to want kids.
Furthermore single mums make a point of saying they will put their kids first meaning i will enter a relationship where i will never be put first. You create things together in relationships, that is the whole point. And i will not go out with a woman who would not have dated me when she was younger just because she could have her pick of the boys.