I just found out that a guy I'm sleeping with has a girlfriend. Should I tell her? Would she want to know?

[Anonymous]

Found out the guy I slept with had a girlfriend but I didn’t find out till after it happened what should I do?

[jennifer_bloom]

I heard on Oprah about a man who murdered his girlfriend after she found out he had a wife and wanted to tell his wife he was cheating on him with her. I left a church cause a married man who went there was dating a girl I met on my way to the gym and my parents said somebody might kill me if the marriage breaks down and I'm suspected as being the gossip who shared his secret with his wife.

[definitelyNotHer]

As someone who has been cheated on, I'd say definitely let the girl know (anonymously). I would be so much more hurt if I found out someone knew and didn't tell me. So sorry you're going through this though girl, that's an awful position to be put in.

[Truthatanycost]

Pray for her and / or find a way to let her know anonymously.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Start off by no longer having anything to do with that unfaithful punk and then telling his girlfriend he can't be trusted.

[Anonymous]

Don't say anything. Just avoid him in the future.

[riverrat3]

How do you feel about it

[Anonymous]

Tell her anonymously. She deserves to know.