Should I tell my girlfriend about this?

[Anonymous]

So I think my friend that works with me is gay for me. I don’t want to believe it’s true, because he’s straight, but the way he’s been acting makes me think he likes me. Like he sent me a picture of shorts down his legs in the middle of the night. And I thought he was just trying to be funny. But then he tells me that his girlfriend is jealous of me and him. And I noticed he save my photos on his phone. And the other day he jumped on top of me, when I tried to make fun of him, but I think he was trying to kiss me while on top of me. I don’t know because I had my eyes closed. And I don’t know? I just get weird vibes from him now. Should I tell my girlfriend about this? And I really hope my friend isn’t gay for me. He’s a good friend.

[Guy13]

I would not as women are already insecure creatures. This will push her over the edge because birds of a feather flock together. She has obviously missed something. “You are latent gay but I missed it.”

When your friend acts out you have to put distance between you two. He is like a 5 year old. Treat him like one. Talking about and acting upon fantasy are two different things. Draws some lines or stop complaining about it. Not doing so only says you like it….
Newsflash: she knows and probably has been wondering about you two for awhile. If you like either one of these people draw lines and shift Time spent.

[RobT312]

No need to tell your girlfriend unless u want to talk about it. It’s a weird story, she may think you are weird too. I’d wonder Why are you accepting photos like that and why are you letting him jump on top of you. If you don’t want your friend acting like that tell him to stop.

[Dana223]

I think it is OK to tell you girlfriend. However you should mostly tell your friend that you have no idea why his girlfriend is jealous, since you have you feelings for him as a straight person. If I was you then I would also ask him to be less physical. "Hey, we're great friends and I appreciate it. I just ask you to keep physical boundaries a bit more, if you don't mind" -- ask casually. Why was he on top of you in the first place?

[SomewhereElse]

That friends is 100% gay for you. I don't think you need to tell your girlfriend about this, you are not doing anything wrong. At the same time, if you want to talk to her about it, it also wouldn't be bad, I'm sure she would understand.