Should I tell my new girlfriend about this?

[Anonymous]

So I get attention from girls sometimes. And I don’t like it when my Friends bring their girlfriends around because I get flirty vibes from them. Like last time they were together, I overheard them calling me pretty and hot. And it made me view them differently. I haven’t been the same. I haven’t told my friends because I don’t want drama, but this is a reason why I don’t like hanging out with them specifically because I’ll see their girlfriend too. And yesterday, one of them came to hangout with the rest of the guys, and she complimented my shoes, and I tried not to talk to her. Should I tell my new girlfriend about this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo man, that's a tricky situation. On one hand, honesty is usually best in a relationship. But telling your girl all that could just make her worried and jealous for no real reason. A few thoughts:

- Your friends' girls were just being friendly, nothing really happened. Telling your girlfriend might make her paranoid over small stuff.

- As long as you're not flirting back or encouraging it, it's not really an issue on your end anyway. You were just being polite.

- Your friends probably don't even realize they're making you uncomfortable. Maybe just tell them privately you'd rather their girls not comment on your looks when hanging out.

- If you think your girl would totally overreact, it's not info she necessarily needs to know. Don't cause drama if it's a minor thing.

- Just focus on making your girl feel special and like the only one when you're together. Reassure her she's got nothing to worry about.

I'd say just let it go for now unless anything actually happens. You don't wanna put doubts in her head this early on over small compliments. Trust me, honesty's good, but too much honesty can hurt sometimes too! Keep it chill man.

[blueeeeberrryyy]

Ofcourse you should tell your girlfriend about this you should share everything about what's happening in your life and all you know.
And the girl who was complementing you you should tell her boyfriend about it he's your friend right so by telling him you are showing him what his girlfriend is like it may save him too cause girls like that are not loyal (I'm saying this because I've seen plenty of girls like that and few cases like that) and you should avoid hanging out with them when that girl is also there who compliments you 👀 i don't think it's right to compliment a guy like that when you are in a relationship as a girl but it goes equal both ways