Should I hide this from my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

So me and my girlfriend has been dating for 4 years now and I am wondering if it's a bad idea to keep hiding this secret of mine from her...

The thing is I am incontinent and wear adult diapers to help me control it..

Should hide my medical condition from her and never tell her about wearing the diapers?

[LisaLisa89]

If you're going to take it to the next stage and sleep with her then you can't possibly hide it

Trust me, I know about that because sometimes I wet the bed and I had to tell my boyfriend about it before sleeping with him.

He's my husband now, and if I'd never told him about my problem we'd certainly never have got as far as marriage!

[NalleBabyBoysss]

Wetting the bed is called enuresis and sure i guess you can hide it if you don't sleep together for 4 years but he says he's incontinent so he wears diapers during the day for 4 years without her knowing i don't buy it unless it's just an online relationship.

[Redstang88]

How have you been together 4 years without her knowing that?

[serious]

No you should not hide. You should tell the truth.

[Anonymous]

The fact that you have been dating her for 4 years and she don't know means that 1. She's not very interested and has another partner or 2. your just trolling with your fetish to get your rocks off. I think it's the 2nd one

[exitseven]

You have a medical condition and it might be embarrassing but certainly not a dealbreaker. She will understand.

[Wise4myage]

Are you sure she doesn’t already know? But yes, you should tell her.

[In_Trance]

would you want her to hide this from you?

[Asker]

If she had this condition I would want her to tell me so I could help where I can.

[In_Trance]

there's your answer