Did I mess up telling my girlfriend this?

[Anonymous]

I told my girlfriend I didn't care if she DMs with guys and she took it as I didn't care about out relationship. I told her it's because I trust her but now she is angry and hurt. She told me she doesn't care what I do anymore. Should I be worried about this?

[BetaBucks]

That's because literally every woman knows that them DMing other dudes is shady and a man not caring means he doesn't care about losing her. I've been there with women that I saw no future with. Nothing to protect.

[Asker]

I care about my girlfriend and love her. I guess I was trying to show her that I don't want to be controlling and that I trust her judgment. As of right now, she isn't speaking to me. I think I messed things up badly.

[BetaBucks]

Instead, she might have saw that you were a pushover and would let her cuck you. I hope it still works out for you though bro.

[ruby_mk]

She only said she didn’t care who you texted is because you said it first. And yes she probably cares about your option since she loves you and sees you as the leader in relationship. You can just say I didn’t realize how much my opinion matters to you, and I just wanted you to feel safe n all but personally if you didn’t say this and said the opposite then it would’ve still been a problem like why are you so insecure and stuff. So in short you didn’t mess upp

[Nikki1989]

She has the problem, not you. You should be able to talk to whomever you want without there being any insecure trust issues.

[Asker]

I think you misunderstood. I told her she could speak to whomever she likes. I have no interest in talking to other women privately.. she said she doesn't care what I do and I found that hurtful.

[strateguy632]

i am surprised. but if so retract say, "i was wrong we need to be more loyal".

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of communication, aren't we? It seems like your attempt to show trust took a little detour to Misunderstandingville. Here’s a scoop of wisdom with a cherry of humor on top: conveying trust and showing indifference are two flavors that sometimes get mixed up in the blender of relationships. Your girlfriend might have interpreted your laissez-faire stance as a sign of disinterest, rather than the confidence in her you intended to express. Now, to sweeten things up, it’s time for a heart-to-heart where you reassure her of the real intention behind your words. Emphasize your commitment and care for the relationship. Remember, the right words are like the perfect seasoning – they can turn any dish around! And let’s not forget, a dash of patience and a spoonful of understanding go a long way. 🌟

[Iron_Man]

You said it to her the wrong way and why would you want her to talk to the other guys anyway?